Does anyone else have a “Bestfriend” that you try to hangout with & they always make up excuses that…

Yep I eventually called her out on it recently and she stopped talking to me she deleted herself from our group chats etc 🤷‍♀️

Yup and shes half way across Canada now and doesnt even reply to my texts anymore. I honestly only have 1 friend now and I just met her like 6 months ago!

@dope.ass.mom, see that’s the thing. Her & I both have kids. I always try to make plans to hangout w her and she always says she’s busy. Just like yesterday I asked her if she wanted to go to the mall& she said “ sorry I can’t I’m going out to dinner at Cheesecake Factory” so I just told her okay next time you aren’t busy maybe we’ll hangout, & she responded with “I’m sorry I promise next time we’ll hangout” I just left her on read. I’m so over this friendship. She’s a total different person now than when we first met. I feel like she’s constantly trying to compete w me& brag about money all the time. Her boyfriend went half on buying a barbershop w his friend and ever since than she acts like his shit don’t stink. today’s her birthday and I don’t even know if I want to tell her Happy Birthday because I don’t want to be petty and not but I’m so mad at her how she always blows me off but has time for her other friends.

@hunni.bunni, I called her out on it once and she still keeps doing it. I’m just at the point where I want to end the friendship but don’t know how, without being so petty. Do I just ignore her when she texts me? I’m just hurt she’s not the same bestfriend I met years ago!

@mommytomariah_josiah I'd wait till she texts you and invites you to do stuff that's what I started doing because anytime I asked her she turned me down. The last time I asked she lied about money again and said she was going with someone else so I called her out and she just left our group chat. We haven't spoke since

@hunni.bunni, that’s what I started doing.. but just yesterday I had texted her and she responded with that. I don’t even want to talk to her for a while I’m so upset with her, todays her birthday and I don’t even know if I want to tell her happy birthday

Yep. Stopped being friends with her. I realized it when I first met my husband and when she noticed he was into me she started to flirt with him and tried to down talk me in front of him whenever she got the chance

@aileen_west, my “BFF” lives 10 mins away so she has no excuse, I almost feel like I have to force communication w her. And that’s another thing I can’t even vent to her without getting criticized & judged.

@parkers_mommy, oh heck no! I would have stopped talking to her too. She was clearly jealous of you.

@mommytomariah_josiah, I had never had any guy show interest in me up until that point. When we got serious she drifted. Got engaged she wouldn’t talk to me for months at a time. I got pregnant and I saw her twice in my pregnancy and the day he was born I didn’t even get a congrats text. She didn’t bother to text me until he was a month old. At that point I was done. I haven’t talked to her since he was 6 weeks old and he’s 15 months now. No regrets

@parkers_mommy, that’s just wrong!!! Did you ever get the vibes that she was jealous of you while you two were friends?

@aileen_west, yes that’s what I’m saying and what makes me feel more like crap is the fact that she’s constantly going out to lunch and hanging out with other friends except me. Like as if I’m not good enough for her to hangout w me. It just really bothers me. I love it that my daughter and I really close. We do girl stuff but it’s not the same because I can’t tell her stuff as if I would to a friend.

@mommytomariah_josiah, no because I had never had anyone show interest in me. I was in her shadow

@dope.ass.mom, thank you girl !! I really needed to hear this. I feel like I was the blame why she never wanted to hangout.

@aileen_west, yes it is. I’m going to cut her off this has been going on for almost two years now

@aileen_west, @dope.ass.mom, @parkers_mommy, I ended the friendship today! I feel so relieved!