Does anyone else feel a deeper connection with their spouse during this process? We had a tough time during the beginning of pregnancy, but now I look at him & realize, this is ...

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Does anyone else feel a deeper connection with their spouse during this process? We had a tough time during the beginning of pregnancy, but now I look at him & realize, this is my baby’s dad. This is who God chose me to create another life with! I truthfully am thankful this is happening with him.

A · Answer

With our first child, yes. He was super involved with the pregnancy. It was amazing to witness. Then the second one ended in a miscarriage at 9 weeks. I'm now pregnant for the third time and he's not very involved. I feel like I'm going through it alone. I think the miscarriage messed with him and he can't be excited until the baby is actually here. Also, it could just be that the first is the most exciting and after that it's just more of the same and our main focus is the child we already do have.

Cindyrella · Answer

Agree! My husband has been my rock for 7 years and now us having a baby together is another amazing journey we get to share. He just randomly tells me things like "you are rocking this pregnancy" And "I haven't had the chance to say it yet but I just want to thank you for carrying our baby boy!" Seriously he makes my heart melt! We are dorks together but I love him so much lol.

Molly W · Answer

@joyfulmom2b, My husband isn’t very expressive, but I know he does. Most men just aren’t that expressive. I’m sure when it comes down to it he does :)

Jenny · Answer

I kinda wish he had the same feeling towards me.. he says he does but meh

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