Any parents split up with a 2 1/2 yr old, my sons dad n I are on verge of breaking up with 50/50 custody but I want this to be as easy on my son as possible I’m worried for my sons sake. Thought we could work it out but we just can’t
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
I need some advice my ex and I broke up November 27th and we haven't gotten along at all since we have fought almost ever day since we broke up and its about everything but our daughter. Now I have this great opportunity to move to New York with my sister and work in one of the biggest hospitals. He is telling me I can't take my daughter with me when this move can benefit from my kids and me. I've decided I'm going to go means I will be leaving in 2 months. But he's telling me if I leave he will take my daughter from me what should I do? Neither one of us has custody of her yet. Plus I have a son with another man and he is letting me take my son.
so I'm a mom of a 26 weeker and he's 2 and my boyfriend has a 2 year old as well and we both want a baby but wonder if we should wait because of all of my health issues I had with my son before he and I got together? please no bashing or judging just asking. fair warning my doctors are all on with it too I just have to have my iud removed.
t- 2 days Until we find out what iron baby is. Decided to do an early scan since my husband won't be at the next ultrasound, and my son won't be at our level 2 scan...I wanted us all together.
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
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Ive never been in that situation. But, i am that kid whose parent’s relationship didnt work out.
My grandparents raised me. My mother went to another country to work and would visit me during the holidays. I grew up knowing nothing of my dad. Assuming he didnt want me or he left my mother and i. One year my mom introduced me to a man who is now my stepdad. He and i did not get a long for 20+ years.
Sometimes i wish my parents didnt drag me into their issues. At least give me a chance to know both sides even if they could not be together. Make my own decison on who gets to be in my life or not. Whether i do that at a young age or when i am older.
Till this day, i dont know anything about my dad besides a brief explaination as to why it didnt work out. I met him once but i was so distant because i am shy. He died shortly after.
I am not close to anyone on my mother’s side of the family. Which also sucks because i am an only child.
My mom and i have a better relationship now, but it took a very long time for us to get to where we are.