Trying to set the table before your hard working boyfriend comes home so he doesn't have to wait to…

Well he seems pleasant

@bluejeana😩

Let him pout. Ridiculous.

Well you tried...I think he owes you an apology for acting that way. 🤷

@brittanypotter1014 he said he tells me all the time not to set the table early and I don't listen. He tells me he is comming in half an hr so I start setting the table he ends up comming an hr later it's his lying that messes up everything

What a douche. I’d say “fine, Don’t eat. And don’t expect me to make you dinner anymore” 🤷🏻‍♀️

@mrschanandlerbong95 makes me sad that I tried even though I'm breast feeding I found a way to put the baby to sleep to serve him :(

Yeah he’s be disrespectful that’s ridiculous

@bluejeana yea and now I don't know if I should save his food on the table or throw it out :( what do you think ?

That’s hard because either way I’m sure will be the wrong way in his eyes

@bluejeana :( I feel if I throw it out he wins and I look like I agreed to his stupidness so I covered it and left it for him If he gets mad he can throw it out

@bodybycheetos it Is I agree

@verguinia, that sounds like a good plan

@bluejeana lol thank you I wanted to save him money everyday I cook something but you know I am so lucky right now I'm not working so I gotta make the best of it for my kids and enjoy my time with them before the baby gets older and I start working again and not being able to be there for my kids as much as I want. He is the least of my worries

Maybe he had a bad day at work but maybe but he was definitely a jerk about it.

@rocilove4 he did his job wrong yesterday so they called his crew to fix it last night and he didn't sleep and then he went to work in the morning but that's the bigger reason I wanted to serve him so he can eat and go to bed

@verguinia, your so sweet I wouldn’t serve my man for a week if he did that shit to me but then again am very stubborn.

@rocilove4 I think I feel like I did something wrong when I just wanted to help him and he is so mad because he keeps telling me not to serve early but he tells me on the phone he is comming in half an hrs so I start and he ends up comming in an hr so it stays there on the table

You did nothing wrong in fact you did did something great. Next time just wait to serve him until he gets home that way he doesn’t have a reason to snap at you.

🙄 How about

Hey honey thanks for making sure I have a hot meal to come home to.

@mhbb3 yesss !!!! Thank you

@rocilove4 yes your right I tried and he just got mad I'm not gonna serve him until he comes home I guess I just have to stop trying to help him more then I should because I know he will start helping with the table and I didn't want him to that's part why I started and also he wanted to order take out because he gets so hungry he can't wait the extra time to prepare the home food that's also why I served early but I will stop since he gets mad

You were being very thoughtful and he is being a giant douche. I would save the food for leftovers and eat tomorrow if he doesn’t eat it tonight. I would also not speak to him or do anything nice until he apologizes! And rubs your feet! And brings you flowers! Seriously though, I hope he is not always a jerk.

@rowdy-vajazzy he is not always a jerk but when he is I have not talked to him

Even for weeks I wish I worked so I didn't have to depend on him he is becoming a bigger jerk lately I asked him with the money I saved from what he gives me to come with me to get a cake pan from the store and he got mad I wanted a cake pan but I chose not to use the money he gave me to order breakfast and made my own breakfast so I can use those money for a cake pan he still got mad I was waisting the money

@verguinia, stop being kind I understand he works but you work too so he should be kinder n help around the house if he doesn’t want to wait then take out. His a jerk for making you feel bad about money you shouldn’t ask for it you should get the money when you need to buy things without giving him an explanation. Do you guys share a bank account

@rocilove4 we don't share one and he just came in and said sorry :( but I'm deffenatly going to serve when he comes home from now on not before I do t want to fight with him and I wish I was working to make my own money I'm looking in to it

At least he apologizes. Yes start dinner when his home. Yes having a job is helpful a little more independence and freedom to do what you wish with your money

@rocilove4 I always had a job this is the first time I started to stay home my younger daughter was struggling in school I had to go to meetings in her school and help her so my job had to go because I spent alot of time with my daughter then found out I was pregnant so still recovering and baby is too small at the moment but I will get back in shape and start working something