Mommies please tell me I'm not wrong or tripping. The father of my child is upset because I don't take time out of my day to call him so he can speak to his child. I feel like of you want to speak, video vaht her you can call yourself. He is making it a big deal because I don't do it.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Racial nickname I sometimes call my lo monkey. To me he looks like a little monkey. My so says it's racist and offensive. What do you think?
Who agrees ? Are you sure this is my child and do you love me = I don't trust you I don't want this child and you don't love me
Next child Speaking to my partner tonight about having our next child i ideally don't want another for a few years yet but he turned around and said only on one condition you have a c section ( i got a 3rd degree tear with Oliver) I actually don't want a c section but he said he won't have another child otherwise am I being unfair ? I loved my birth with Oliver i loved that feeling him being placed on me, but he said if I don't have a c section the next baby won't be with him :(
This is my son Walter. Today is his birthday. He would have been five. This picture was taken when he was 16 days old. He was my first child and my only son (I now have 3 girls). He passed away the next day after this picture from congenital heart failure. It was a miracle that he lived passed 12 weeks gestation because of how severe his heart defects were. I miss him so much, I can't believe it's been 5 years. It still hurts so bad. I don't talk about him a lot out loud because I end up bawling, so i thank you for letting me share this with you ladies. You have always been nice and supportive. Happy birthday son, your mom loves you.
babymay2016·
I just absolutely disagree, and if he wants to provide some consistency then HE can do that. I have spent years here trynna force my baby daddy in my sons life and it never worked until he wanted to be a part. It is NOT your responsibility to call him. He is here now and I hypothetically asked him his opinion on your situation and he said that if he wants to call then he would call (lol which makes him look like an ass because he never did) he said it's not my responsibilty to call ever and if he wanted to call then he can call. You should not have to call him to talk to his child. He should call you. He the one tripping
Marissa·
Like @lillynellasmom, said, you 2 should agree on a time, maybe twice a day at a certain time everyday that he can call and that way your child has some consistency from him and something to look forward to each day.
babymay2016·
I could see how he would be mad if you don't answer or something, but that is NOT your job to call HIM so HE can talk to her??? Hell nah... Not your problem.
Monique Murehead·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
I would get mad too but I can kind of see his side too maybe he doesn't know what you're doing and doesn't want to call at the wrong time I don't know maybe set a time or like the other girl said you call sometimes and have him call sometimes never hurts to try.
Jessenia Jessenia·
I believe you guys can talk about it and have him call some days and you some other days!!
Robyn·
Communication goes both ways.