I hate seeing women tearing down and being mean to other women. It makes me wonder how unhappy they…

Exactly! I block those people. Especially the ones that no matter what is posted always have something negative to say. But then the same ladies bitch about being blocked. Like they are proud. I don’t allow that in my life and sure AF won’t on this app.

@masseymomma16 Yeah I don't have anyone blocked. I've kinda distanced myself the best I can by leaving certain groups with really mean women. It's when I see other women that don't at all deserve it that breaks my heart. I'm glad you have blocked those people 😘 Don't worry about people bitching about being blocked.

It's because they aren't happy. Sure they may say and think they are.. but if they took a step back and left the negativity they'd notice the difference.

@bodybycheetos Exactly. I wish some women would leave high school and start building each other up instead of tearing each other down.

They’re miserable in their own lives and have to try to spread it into other people to make themselves feel better 😅 it’s sad.

I’ve come to the conclusion that some just like being that way. Like it’s apart of them. It’s sad. I have my moments of being negative or in a bad mood but I’m usually a positive person and treat others how I’d wanted to treat others.

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It’s entirely possible to live a happy and fulfilled life and not get along with people or choose to call them out on their bs.

Just sayin’.

🤔🧐.... you know what let me just mind my business smh

Often the people I encounter as a lifestyle coach that are struggling with anger or grudges the most are the ones fighting serious battles in their own minds. Everyone is fighting silent battles and I agree, being cruel is never the answer. Those that lash out are often hurting deeply. It doesn’t excuse their actions, and they need to take actions to heal themselves so they don’t harm others. We all make mistakes but as long as we grow from them, that’s what matters. I find it to be incredibly important to focus energy on the relationships that do help you grow, are supportive and help build you up. It is equally important to recognize toxicity so you can limit your exposure to it. Life is too short to waste on anyone who is causing you heartache. I am glad you have found some amazing women to share your journey with. I am so grateful for the ones in my life as well. 💜

It's one thing when 2 people are angry at each other and get into a big fight. It's a whole different thing when people who weren't involved get involved and fan the flames instead of being like, "no ones forcing you to talk to this person, just block them".

I totally get the temptation to get involved, have your say and so on. I've been guilty of it and I own up to it because Lord knows I can be a nosy mother fucker (all the more reason why I'm glad I'm not in these chats lol).

But at the end of the day, it's not my or anyone else's fight. If 2 people don't like each other, they can just block each other. It's dumb to decide the next best step is to rally people on your firing squad against someone you'll never even meet, anyway.

I think bullying is just straight bitterness in the heart. I don't think it's from a specific situation we're in... When I'm having a hard time in life, I come here to look for happiness and take my mind off things.. some people are just flat out mean and their life circumstances will probably never change that.

@ek620 That's not at all what my post said.

@whitninicole, My comment was not in reply to your post. It was a thought I had that was inspired by some of the comments.

@ek620 Okay. lol Because I was in general talking about bullies. There is one specific person who is horrible to a lot of women and I ask myself why is she so miserable. I missed the whole fight between momma & ali. So I have no idea what happened there.

You’re right it’s really sad. Some people just don’t know when to stop. Step away from the app and gather their thoughts. Then come with a fresh mind and act like grown ups. I really miss B.B. and the mods. At least there u couldn’t say whatever u wanted because u knew there could be repercussions like being banned. Here it’s a free for all and it’s really sad that u think u know people but once they are uncensored they show their true colors. This is just what I’ve gathered from being here. Even though I’m not on often I tend to see the same group of people ganging up on others. Then we wonder why our children are being bullied?! This is a general statement from what I’ve seen in my little time spent on this app. Also this is just my opinion and I’m not talking about anyone in specific just a general observation

@rockyrrt I have a problem with people bullying other people in general. I don't like women tearing each other down. If you read my comments I personally don't have to deal with her anymore. I know what general means. lol I don't know you at all nor would I tell you who I have an issue with.

@whitninicole, rocky is Illuminati.

@bcsweetie Awe you're the sweetest! Honestly I haven't had any issues for awhile but I hate seeing other women really hurt.

I just say a prayer for them🙏❤