First of all, I went to a lawyer to figure out a schedule but ex fought everything so I gave up…
First of all, I went to a lawyer to figure out a schedule but ex fought everything so I gave up because why should I be paying to force him to be a consistent dad. (He works swing shifts and is near impossible)
Second, this 18yo girl (exes gf and new baby momma) is talking about how responsibilities and life prevent them from going on vacations "all the time like I do". Like biatch don't even go there.
Third, saying i can't take of ds? Wtf😭 any shred of respect I had for her is gone.
I'm completely done with them. They want to get mad about having to watch ds for three days? Fine! Don't watch him at all, then you don't have to worry about schedules
ail 🌈·
Man forget her, you keep doing you mama.
QueenB·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (13 нед.)
@ailurophiliac, I'm at sil Bachelorette party (been planned for months) it's pretty quite rn as everybody is recuperating from our day trip. Figured I'd be nice and talk schedules with her but I was getting frustrated with my first two points andmy heart just broke when she told me I can't take care of ds. I'm full out bawling
ail 🌈·
@honeywax, I know it’s hard but try not to let her get to you, I’m sure she was just talking out of her ass trying to hurt you.
deborahjq·
Hey! Don't you dare let an 18 year old who considers her bfs kid as "more work" tell you you can't take care of your kid. She's whining about having him for 3 days.
3 DAYS.
Don't let her get to you.
Leah·
Are you talking to her on snap chat? I feel like that's a bad idea since the messages disappear. If they're going to be causing problems then tell them they need to text or email you so you can keep a record of everything they say. But honestly I wouldn't waste your time talking to her. Seems like its just feeding drama.
QueenB·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (13 нед.)
@leahkay, I screenshotted everything. I knew why she wanted to talk on snapchat
Shay·
@honeywax if you hold down in the message it should lock them in place.
Lulu Summer·
A 18 year old GF/BM whose relationship probably won’t last to her 6 week PP visit isn’t worth crying over. Worry about the father of your son and if you want to pursue having constant visits established. If so, a lawyer is worth it. Block this broad and move on, she isn’t worth the headache.