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Transgender children So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are your thoughts on the matter? Do u think the parents are behind this? Idk because I haven't met the parents or children. I just think at 5 it's very young for children to really understand. What do u ladies think?
Locking your doors We are having a discussion on one of my birth boards from my older kids about locking doors and security alarms. There are many of us (me included) who do not lock our doors at home (I actually don't even have a deadbolt on my house and we don't lock it when we leave either), and others who think that's totally weird. So what do you do? Do you lock your doors? Do you think it's weird that people don't?
So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that
So just told the girls that we won't be trick or treating this year...mommy is just too fat right now lol. So does anyone have any ideas of activities that we can do at home. We have already decided on candy apples....
jea·
Yeah don't spend a ton of money on it! Some of the best showers I've been to have just been at someone's house, everyone chatting, talking about baby, eating some snacks and opening gifts! Doesn't have to he a huge thing!
K·
Мама двоих (младенец)
What about a meet and greet after the baby is born? You wouldn’t need to decorate or make food because they would be there to see the baby. If you’re planning on paying for everyone’s food at a fancy restaurant I think that would be more expensive than a baby shower, if you’re planning on them paying then you probably won’t get many gifts since they’d have to pay for food and a gift and might only be able to afford one.
First Time Mommy·
Мама дочки-младенца
Great idea! I had the same thoughts about mine so I decided to have it at my house . Way cheaper and if you weigh our cost of shower to gifts if it’s the same thing you didn’t really gain anything . I think you’re making the right decision
Allison·
I think it's a good idea u still get to celebrate and have a good time without breaking the bank 👏👍