My husband is divorcing me. And I don’t quite understand why he’s not willing to change. He says he loves me but every time I get upset and yell or say something he doesn’t like he’d send me back to my moms. I’ve been diagnosed with postpartum depression and bipolar and I’m willing to go to counseling and work on getting better but it doesn’t seem like he’s willing to support me or go to counseling and deal with his stuff. I feel like I’ve given him everything and I’ve gotten little to nothing in return. I had a rough delivery and now it feels like I’ve missed out on so much of my daughters life due to being sent away for getting frustrated to the point of yelling... I’m not sure how to feel right now
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He either calls my mom and tells her to come get me (she lives 3hrs from where I was living) or he makes me call her. I’m currently back at my moms right now.
@mhbb3, We’ve been together since 2016. We got married December of 2017. I still love him and he’s great with her and I’d like to go to marriage counseling but it doesn’t seem like he wants to do that and no we don’t go to church together
If he wants to send you to your mom's every time you get upset he's not being a good husband. In sickness and in health. How long have you been together? How long have you been you married?
Stuff like this makes me want to say just let him go but you obviously want to hold on to your marriage. Can I ask why? Is he a good husband and father other than this?
If so I suggest marriage counseling. Do you go to church as a family? Do you and your husband put God at the center of your life?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I feel so helpless.. I feel like my husband doesn’t love me anymore .. I feel like he’s tired of me or something.. he said I disgust him.. we got in a fight and now he’s talking shit to me. I told him if he’s so tired of me and I disgust him so much then why doesn’t he leave or tell me to leave ? He said that it’s getting to that point .. and that he’s not holding back ..
I am so stressed right now!!!
My OB doesn’t want to take me anymore because I am too “high risk” so I got a new one they don’t want to see me either. They referred me to a group one hour way from my house. But there is only one high risk dr and he doesn’t know if he could see me.
I feel like I should not see any at this point.
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
my boyfriend has this friend he’s known since they were little kids. she likes to go out to eat and go to the movies, stuff like that and he’s usually the one she goes with. I’ve expressed that i’m uncomfortable with it plenty of times and even after talking to the girl about why I feel like this and even being told and me knowing that nothing is going on between them, i still find myself very uncomfortable with it. 😩
Hell no, you should not stay with a man who “sends you away”. Also, you should talk to your doctor about medication and counseling for your depression and bipolar. I would move in with your mother and work on getting better mentally and sharing custody with the ex.