KJ Cross
kjcross
KJ Cross·В ожидании первенца

Is it normal as a FTM to be worried you're not going to like having a baby or like being a mother???

I'm not sure if this is a part of the gauntlet of worries every new mom faces or if this is a part of my prenatal depression waking back up (I'm having a bad and depressing day 😕)

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lana30319
marlena jones ·Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

@bitchcraft I do so agree! There is no manual on who to make everyday a great day in motherhood. But overcome one fear at a time. And learn from each one you over come. And allow that to give you hope and a smile.

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kelley.blue
Kelley87·Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

I'm sure it's normal bc we all have different fears about parenting. I didn't ever wonder if I'd like being a mother but I still wonder if I'll continue being able to keep my babies safe. I check on those kids throughout the night. I don't get a full nights sleep unless I get my drink on lol! And that's rare smh..

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ke-ke
Keeosha Fennell ·Мама сына-младенца

I love being a mom.. I think it’s just jitters it will go away especially when you hold your baby

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kambam
kammy·Мама сына (2 года)

Well yes, it's a valid fear!

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kjcross
KJ Cross·В ожидании первенца

@bitchcraft @kambam

Ok, so, this was kind of about "is it normal to fear _____" and not so much "please validate my fear of it being awful" lol

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kjcross
KJ Cross·В ожидании первенца

Maybe it's just a fear of change and a fear of the unknown, even for you @baby2comingup, since none of us can know right now exactly what life will be like?

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mommyxtwice
Mary Carpenter·Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (34 нед.)

I absolutely loooove being a mom to my girl, but even being pregnant with baby 2 I have these kind of thoughts, wondering if I'll like having him.

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brittany88
Brittany·В ожидании первенца

I have days where i worry about how am i goin to b a mom everyday

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kambam
kammy·Мама сына (2 года)

Lol yes. Definitely a normal worry. To be honest, I hate some days. We're all human.

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