Is it normal as a FTM to be worried you're not going to like having a baby or like being a mother???
Is it normal as a FTM to be worried you're not going to like having a baby or like being a mother???
I'm not sure if this is a part of the gauntlet of worries every new mom faces or if this is a part of my prenatal depression waking back up (I'm having a bad and depressing day 😕)
kammy·
Мама сына (2 года)
Lol yes. Definitely a normal worry. To be honest, I hate some days. We're all human.
Brittany·
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I have days where i worry about how am i goin to b a mom everyday
Mary Carpenter·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (34 нед.)
I absolutely loooove being a mom to my girl, but even being pregnant with baby 2 I have these kind of thoughts, wondering if I'll like having him.
KJ Cross·
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Maybe it's just a fear of change and a fear of the unknown, even for you @baby2comingup, since none of us can know right now exactly what life will be like?
KJ Cross·
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@bitchcraft @kambam
Ok, so, this was kind of about "is it normal to fear _____" and not so much "please validate my fear of it being awful" lol
kammy·
Мама сына (2 года)
Well yes, it's a valid fear!
Keeosha Fennell ·
I love being a mom.. I think it’s just jitters it will go away especially when you hold your baby
Kelley87·
I'm sure it's normal bc we all have different fears about parenting. I didn't ever wonder if I'd like being a mother but I still wonder if I'll continue being able to keep my babies safe. I check on those kids throughout the night. I don't get a full nights sleep unless I get my drink on lol! And that's rare smh..
marlena jones ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
@bitchcraft I do so agree! There is no manual on who to make everyday a great day in motherhood. But overcome one fear at a time. And learn from each one you over come. And allow that to give you hope and a smile.