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Hi everyone hope your well. It’s been a while since I’ve posted, things have been pretty stressful over the last few…

Hi everyone hope your well. It’s been a while since I’ve posted, things have been pretty stressful over the last few weeks. The girls dad and I decided to split up, almost a month ago now, we hadn’t been getting on for ages, we were arguing, spending more time apart than together and there was always an atmosphere around the girls which wasn’t fair on them. He’s moved in with his brother, he didn’t want me to move out with the girls and put them through the hassle of living somewhere they didn’t know. We’re on talking terms though and will continue to talk to each other and be on good terms for our girls sakes, he’s still there dad and a good one at that. We have a lot to sort out, such as the mortgage, the bills, money for the girls. I think though we will have to sell the house and I will find a smaller place for me and the girls there’s no way I can afford to pay it on my wage, especially when I’m on maternity leave, something I need to sort out, I think I will need to go back to work earlier than planned which I don’t want to do but needs must. Ruby also got rushed into hospital 2 weeks ago now and spent nearly a week there before being allowed home, thankfully she’s on the mend now. My biggest girl starts back school in just over a week, she’s really looking forward to that, we went out today to pick up the last of her uniform, she’s missing her daddy but speaks to him everyday and sees him most days, she understands that mummy and daddy just weren’t happy together anymore but we still love her and her sister and always will and they will always be number 1. Single parent life here I come.

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zoe.d84

Zoe Мама двоих (младенец)

@vixster, I ideally don’t want to move we’ve only lived here 4 years it’s the only home my girls have ever known and I don’t want to disrupt that. If I was to move I’d still stay in the same area I don’t really want to move schools. For the moment though we are staying put xx

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zoe.d84

Zoe Мама двоих (младенец)

@vixster, we’re not rushing into selling, it’s still quite a fresh split and we want to sort out the girls first make sure they’re ok and with my biggest going back to school we want to focus on that for just now make sure she settles ok in her new year. Will defo be looking into things properly before any major decisions are made x

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need suggestions.... So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I…

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