Well it looks like I can’t afford legal advice and I’m going to have to find somewhere else to live because I don’t seem to have any rights because the baby isn’t here yet and my son isn’t his child so he can just kick us out 😞

@mrsmowmow, I don’t earn enough money, the bank would lend him more on his own than both of us put together. I’ve paid so much towards the house but he’s paid the mortgage. I pay the home insurance and council tax and all the utility bills, and I’ve decorated the kitchen and two of the bedrooms out of my pocket as well xx

He said he doesn’t think he ever loved me, he thinks he was just going through the motions and doing what he thought/felt like he was supposed to do

If he kicks you out and makes you and his child homeless he is a massive dick. Maybe he’s just got scared of commitment and change. Try not to stress hun everything will work out in the end, what will be will be xx

@vixster, I’m sorry you had to go through that, it really does suck :( xx

@vixster, he’s said he may change his mind later but he doesn’t know how he’ll feel then xx

I’m not even on the mortgage. I’m screwed. And if it’s baby anxiety... I dunno how we can ever go back from this, he’s destroyed me xx

@catherineoneill.con, that sucks! I gave up a really good (and cheap) private rent to buy this house. I’ve put so much work into it. This isn’t like him at all I just do t understand, he says I’ve done nothing wrong... he’s just not got a reason for any of this :( xx

@benny2514 I'm with mine nearly 9 years he talked me into giving up my council house and moving bk to belfast with him one week after I handed keys back he started u were sleeping with ur neighbour u were sleeping with the fella u work with u were sleeping with this person that person ( I wasn't btw) so basically made me and our daughter homeless now we r back in my parents house with this baby due in December he signed himself in to a phystatric ward he's out now I had to get an order out to keep him away bloody wasters as much as I love him I know deep down I'm better off without him hope u get sorted xx

Tell me about it, nearly 3 years of my life wasted, and once again I’m going to be a single mum, only to two kids this time. He completely ruined my life, we bought a house a year ago and now I’m going to have to lose it. I’ve just decorated the nursery too. I honestly don’t know what to do :(

wow what the hell?! I hope your okay chick,he clearly isn’t worth your time,that’s so so mind baffling😶

What a dick better off with out him x