I want to ask y’all ladies a question. Do you care if your in laws like or hate you? Married or not I would love to hear…

PSA- my in laws haaaaaate me but I honestly don’t care because he loves me and he has always Stuck by my side no matter what !

@honeyxxbee, I understand mine loved me at first now they hate my guts after things got rough with us. It does honestly upset me but at the same time I don’t care cuz at the end of the night I lay down with him not them and he’s happy soo 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Like @honeyxxbee, said, my MIL lives in a different state, so it doesn’t affect me. But for whatever reason she doesn’t like me, which is fine because she’s no peach herself lol so no I don’t really care lol

I care for sure. Unless my dh were estranged from his parents I wouldn’t want them to hate me. That’s a pretty strong emotion to have towards someone who is supposedly embarking on creating a family with your son. Either they have some issues or I’ve screwed up somewhere. It will come up later when you realize you want your children to have grandparents

@tennesseehawk, I never understood why they hate when it doesn’t effect them any

@honeyxxbee, this is sad to hear. So sad

@honeyxxbee, maybe try to get to know them more go to church with them or something 🤷‍♀️

@phoebesmommy, it does suck

Don't really care but we should all be able to get along. You can dislike someone for your children but still treat them nicely. We don't really like my SIL but she's great for my brother and made a cutie so whatever...she can stay.

@phoebesmommy, it does suck to feel unwanted or disliked but what’s a women to do in a circumstance like that . I hate it but at the same time It is what it is in my book

@bunny713, I will never understand what I have done to make my MIL dislike me so much. I’m a great, loving and supportive wife to her son and a very loving, involved mom to her grandkids. I tried for a long time to build some sort of a relationship with her and she made it very obvious she wanted nothing more than to just put up with me every time we had to be around each other. So that’s how it’ll be I guess. I’m not going to bend over backwards for some one who makes me feel like a pile of dirt.

Well not in laws, but my baby daddys side of the family... They are from Somalia, Africa. They are Muslim. They hate me and my son and want nothing to do with us. This used to really bother me... But it is 100% their loss. There is nothing I can do about this now? My son is two and happy and healthy, we are about to have another baby. It is so so so their loss and not mine at all. They don't want to be a part of our beautiful childrens lives, and they want to shame their own son for taking care of his children? Oh well..

@honeyxxbee, is your husband one of many children? Seems so weird they aren’t interested in baby on the way

@honeyxxbee, 😂 “been there done that, too many damn gifts”

Thankfully I got lucky. My in laws like me.. at least I think so. Me and my mother in law are pretty close, she's a wonderful woman.

I feel like if my in laws didn't like me it would be a bit upsetting and if they showed they didn't like me or disrespected me that would open up a whole other can of worms.

My in laws have been off and on with me in the past. At first they loved me and then they hated me while things were were rough with me and my SO and then I moved in with them so they got over it, and now they love me. I love them too! They’re the family I didn’t really get to have

My future FIL told us we were stupid for getting pregnant. Told my man he messed up his life. But here we are 11 months later and his grandson is the light of his life.

My mil passed away 2 years ago from cancer. His father is estranged but his siblings and I get along :)

I get along really well with my mother in law, we have a lot of the same interests so we’re good. His dad is fine, we love each other, he’s helped a lot and we don’t talk a lot but we have a fairly unique understanding of each other as our childhood years we’re very similar and scarring. He’s a bit of an ass sometimes but despite the arguing we generally get along. I would honestly probably feel really sad if they stopped liking me but only because I’ve known them for the last 10 years and I think I’d be sad if anyone I’d known and been close to that long didn’t like me anymore.

My sister in law is one of my best friends, and we hang out and talk a lot and like to take her daughter out to shop and play at the playground. She’s a single mother and I’m Addison’s godmother/aunt-parent and I’d care much more if something went sour with my friendship with them. More than my husbands parents!

It would be hard for me if my in laws hated me because we live 15 minutes away from them. But they treat me well and have never said anything. So I would say they don’t hate me. :)

I cared when we dated but I give no fucks now lol

I would definitely care. Luckily I was blessed with SUPER freakin awesome inlaws. I sometimes think I like them better than my own parents! They just have a totally different dynamic than my side of the family. They are all very close and actually involved in each others lives. When they ask you how you're doing or what's going on, they genuinely care about the answers to those questions. I LOVE LOVE LOVE them! Thank God cause we live across the street from each other so it would be fucking MISERABLE if they didn't like me or want me around. They have always happily welcomed me and never ever have they questioned their son's decision to spend his life with me. I feel so bad for you ladies that have to endure a monster in law. It's GOT to be just awful!

I'm lucky my inlaws love me and I'm very happy about it we have a great relationship. My mom did not like my hubby for the longest time but now has come around thankfully cuz that was hard and very trying. She still at times can be a little too judgey toward him but it's a lot better then what it used to be.

I got lucky, love my in laws..

No i dont care if they dont but at the same time its nice to be adults and be cordial with one another