Dude 3 is already 10 and a half and people are still asking me if we are gonna try for a girl! While…

Dude 3 is already 10 and a half and people are still asking me if we are gonna try for a girl! While my exact answer to their question tends to vary with my mood (from helltothenaw to sigh, no), the sentiment, since the moment Dude 3 took his first breath of air has always been the same: NO!

We decided before we even knew Dude 3 was going to be a dude that we were getting off of the baby making train. Pregnancy didn't come easily, I'd had a traumatic birth, high risk pregnancy, and developed an autoimmune disease...