Okay, this is my first time posting on here.
Okay, this is my first time posting on here.
In 2013 I had a baby via c-section and my aunt adopted him due to my living circumstances. Right after they pulled baby out of me the took him to get cleaned up and my aunt promised me she wouldn’t leave me alone. Needless to say when baby was cleaned and ready to go to her room she left me alone. I have a c-section scheduled for the 16th and it’s like the trauma and flash backs are hitting me hard and I’m getting scared to even have my baby. SO will be there the whole time and he is 120% involved with everything but I can’t help but to feel all the feelings from the last time in the OR. I do plan on talking with hubby tonight when he gets home from work, just scared and don’t know what to do.
Brittani Calhoun·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
This is my 4th baby, 3rd c-section, it was just the trauma of my aunt lying to me that’s making me have bad memories and stuff and scaring me
Mj·
Мама двоих (младенец)
With your scheduled c-Section, everything will be so much easier mama. They will make your husband wait outside while you get your spinal and get prepped but once they bring him in you will have him there the entire time. My mom never left my side once from the operating room, to us going back to the postpartum room. And also with this being your second time you know more of what to expect and you have the opportunity to voice what you dont want aswell.
Brittani Calhoun·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Thank you ladies, my SO is the best support. We are gonna talk here soon since he just got home from work.
Clair Warren ·
В ожидании первенца
Sounds like u have good support from your SO! You will do great mamma! Everything will be ok!
Sabrina Beloved·
I’m so sorry for your trauma. I can understand what it’s like to have great fear from bad past experiences. Having a reassuring and comforting spouse can really do wonders though. Just let him know you don’t want him to leave you side the whole time and I’m sure he would comply easily to ease your fears ❤️ I hope everything goes well for you and your baby ❤️