Hey y’all! First time momma over here and I have no clue how this works. So feel free to help a sista out if you can💕 I…

Ur very welcome dear :)

@soon-2b-mother-of-3, I appreciate this! And I’m alllll for bluntness lol I respect that. Thank you for this!

@lillyb, ugh y’all are so sweet! Thanks girly!

Were all here for u we remember how it is. Congrats on ur pregnancy

And congratulations love.. you will be great. Oh make sure u keep a little time for yourself love. That's also very important

Ask away.. honestly none of knew what we where doing. We all learn as we go love. Make sure you have a lot of patience patience is very important. Kid are a joy at times. But that can get on your last nerv! There are 4 stage you have to get thou

1) baby stage ( very very important)

At stage they learn the most. How to talk,walk,learn,etc..etc..

2) toddler stage. They will test you at this point. But they could be the most fun here. From born -3 is where they learn the most.

3) Teenagers I not sure how this part works. But Just think about how you where as a teenager and what you need. Is how I plan to tackle that part. And that scares the hell out of my to be honest...

4) adulthood.. Now here they will need you the most. And they will think they know where think and have every mat out. You have to learn a balance at this stage. Stay close but not to close..

And make sure you set rules and boundaries at the beginning of the stage or I mean the second part. Very important. If you have any questions just ask. And before you do I do not sugar coat. Just have to let you know that. I hope this help.

Mine are 12,3,20,18, one on the way.. ( 20 and 18 have there own mother. I am there number 2 if they need me. If that make sense)

@beachcutie0808, thanks girrrrl!

Just ask away we are all here to give advice whether or not you take it is up to you... lol 🤗 welcome

Okay that helps so much! Thank you! Cause I love lifting heavy and I’m so paranoid just cause I’m so early into the pregnancy. But this honestly helps so much! Thank you

If you worked out previously to being pregnant then you don’t need to stop. Just don’t like weights over 30lbs. I eat spicy foods all the time and was never told not to eat it the heart burn is crazy sometimes but spicy food is so worth is lol. My go to snacks are yogurt and granola, trail mixes peanut butter and crackers and special K original cereal

@kendrab, thank you!

@wolfe1134, like when can I work out? How hard is too hard? Is it not safe to eat spicy food? Like will it do something to the baby? And I’m hungry every hour what’s some snacks that are healthy that’ll Keep me satisfied for longer than 30 min 🤦🏻‍♂️😂

Best of luck! Lol! Prayers for a full term healthy pregnancy

What are some of your questions momma?