I just have to get this off my chest. My SO mother ignores my rules towards my child making hard to manage. Because if…
I just have to get this off my chest. My SO mother ignores my rules towards my child making hard to manage. Because if she's around he runs to her so he can get away with whatever he wants or to get whatever he wants. It's so annoying. Just a few minutes ago I brought him home, I live in a back house here at my mother in laws. And his favorite cousin was here but she left with her mother. Leaving my child crying and it was time for him to come home. He cried his little eyes out and here comes my mother in law to take him back getting his way. I'm so ready to get our own house I feel like it'll change things.
Maria·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (19 нед.)
She has other grand kids also and she gets so defensive when her daughter getting after her kids. We can say anything around her because she starts making her faces or starts saying let him hes a baby. I'm sorry but I just dont want my kid to end up being rude to other people or myself
Mish·
Мама сына (1 год)
@maria.trejo925, my husband used to get incredibly defensive if I blamed things on his mother. He still gets upset if I bring her up. I wanna say “Sorry your mom sucks 🤷🏽♀️”
Maria·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (19 нед.)
It's so annoying because I know I have a right to tell her something but I dont wanna over step and get on her bad side so I just keep it to my self. Then my husband gets mad when I tell him it's his mom fault for the way our son is. I had to start working after he turned 11/2 yrs and now hes gonna be 3 yrs so hes very used to the way his grandmother puts things. And then we are the ones to deal with the bad temper he gets because his grandmother babys him to much and let's him get away with it. How does my husband expect us to fix his tempers now when his mother let's him do whatever. My husband wants to spank our son but I think we need to explain things to our son and show him a better way. I'm not saying spanking bad but I believe explaining is better start.
Kaysie·
Мама двоих (2 года, 5 лет)
My mom does the same thing with my son. It’s so difficult.
Mish·
Мама сына (1 год)
It definitely does. My mother in law overstepped a lot when we lived with her. My son had such a hard time transitioning after we moved and would just scream at me. He was only 13 months old. It took a month for him to adjust and get back to being my little sweetie.