I’ve been working so hard on taking care of everyone else I have lost sight of my me time 😬 in the last 7 weeks we have moved our family half way across the United States, temporarily moved in with hubbys grandma (lord help us), gone on two family vacations that were really for the kiddos (Disney and beach vacay), have nearly throat punched my in laws due to their disrespectful manners and treatment towards my children and me so that has caused issues between me and hubs, have started a new job at a new gym, gained some new clients local and in other states, helped hubby with starting his new job (previous company I worked for hired him), have taken care of my ill grandmother, got the minions situated into their doctor and schools and now we just closed on our new home so we shall be moving again..... I found myself today with mixed emotions happy well more like ecstatic but too drained to celebrate or even smile. I literally cried and I mean ugly cried. So I did a self assessment and realized what i preach to my clients and fellow mommas “you can’t pour from an empty cup so you NEED to find time for yourself” I was totally ignoring it and I was letting life happen. So now that I’m aware of the whirlwind I’ve been caught in what will I do? I’ll start by my daily meditation, and including my workout into my busy schedule as if it was a dr appt. I’ve always been used to 4-5 workouts a week and I found myself in the last 7 weeks barely getting in twice a week. I’m also going back to basics and reminding the kiddos momma needs her 30 mins to herself daily so while baby naps all older boys are to keep themselves busy and quiet. It may sound selfish, and the mom guilt does kick in for me during those 30 mins but I remind myself it’s only 30 mins of 24 hours and It’ll help me be a better mom, wife and person. Self care is so important ladies and even for someone who teaches this on a daily, it can be quite easy to get caught up with everything else. #positiveenergy #selfcare #womenempoweringwomenwednesday
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...


I don’t think we would have been able to move if I didn’t have my stay at home job, we would still be in a neighborhood with our house getting broken into. I’m so thankful and blessed to have found a legit home job so my kids don’t have to go to day care, counting my blessings daily
Literally have no friends or pt people to text haha every friend turned their backs on me or just don't get my pregnancy or SO issues and I kudu keep to myself. 🙄
What your favorite physical attribute? Like what do u think is the best part of yourself? For me it’s my arms and legs. My arms are cut and I have nice muscular arms, but not too muscular, and my legs I’ve always had nice long legs. So what’s yours?
Exclusively breastfeeding is stressful 😫. I'm so tired all the time but I want to wait to introduce bottles...I need encouragement! This was my goal from the beginning but it's all new to me so I just have to give myself time to adjust right? 😅