I have had it planned for years my first baby i would have a gender reveal party and me and…

I have had it planned for years my first baby i would have a gender reveal party and me and myboyfriend would be surprised together when we saw pink or blue and we would scream and hug and be excited. Well today my boyfriend said no.. he wants to know what it will be and hes not doing that. He said i could be surprised and he would set up the party.. yall im pissed... its not gonna be the same.. im tempted to just not tell him when the doctor puts the gender in the envelope...i will work my female/mommy/puppy eyes magic on him waiting till the reveal. Wish me luck mammas!