I’m officially left my husband he started physically harming me right after our son was born and this last time he cracked one of my teeth busted my lip and ripped the thing that’s holds my top lip to my gums that piece of skin he keeps screaming at me everytime he doesn’t get his way or he gets woken up by our son which in all honesty I do everything it’s not like he has to do much when I concerns our son maybe hold him for about 20 min after he is home then my son goes to sleep I’m done he woke me up the other morning screaming at me on how bad a mom and how lazy I am when he wasnt the one up all night with a sick baby my son had been throwing up all night and I just layed down and actually fell asleep well our son was screaming for 10 min and it woke him up that was the day he busted my lip all because I told him he wasn’t a man since he throat slammed me into a couch
Pm me if you need to talk. I recently went through something similar.
Wow congratulations for leaving
What you’ve done absolutely takes courage! Being afraid doesn’t make you weak. Keep your head up, mama.
Good for you for leaving sometimes that can be hard for women but you gotta do whats best for baby n you . God bless u on this journey
@klcreller you need to go like now to a women's shelter in your area and tell them everything, they can keep you safe. I lived in one twice and I felt at peace. They have surveillance cameras and everything. He will hurt the baby to hurt you so do not trust him or anyone else with your baby.
Good! I know how wrong it feels right now. Been there. But just stay strong and know you are making the right choice. Talk with friends, family and lawyer/law officials only. Nobody from his side.
@veemitchell, he is gonna try to take my son from me I know he is and when he don’t get his way he is gonna kill me
@klcreller leaving and making a better life for your baby took strength. Block his number, get a restraining order, and cut off anyone who talks to him. Trust me on that.
@kambam, I haven’t replied to any of his texts or calls
No DO NOT communicate with him. You need to move on and get away to your safe spot. Abusers will always try to drag you back in
@oceanbabe424, thank u I just wish I could just forget and move on but it’s only been a day and my heart feels broken and he has been texting my phone saying how much he loves me and he wants me back but I have a feeling tomorrow he is gonna turn angry bc he is already starting to
You are so strong and so amazing for leaving. I don’t have any advice, but I just want you to know how courageous you are.
@veemitchell, @wafflespancakes, I don’t feel like I have any courage especially right now
@wafflespancakes, I wish I felt like that right now
@cams, I didn’t go to hospital and yes I made a report but all the cops know my husband so I’m sure they r gonna tell him I know he’s gonna come after me so now I’m scared more for my life than my baby’s but starting tomorrow I get to go to a safe house yay me
@klcreller I did too when I left mine. Dont let that make you go back to him. You are a complete person without a shitty abusive man and you dont want him as an example to your son.
I’m glad you had the courage to leave. I know it can’t be easy, but you did the right thing.
I’m glad you left. Did you make a police report or tell the hospital it was your husband that assaulted you?
I'm glad you got yourself and your baby away from him. Dont trust him around your son, ever.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
It happened....?
2.5 years and today was the day he heard me fart. I thought I could crop dust him, but it came out full force. He looked at me and busted out laughing. ?
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
My 5 year old brother just got circumcised due to all the infections he kept on getting & seeing him in so much pain not being able to walk makes me glad I got my son circumcised as a newborn & planning on doing the same with my second baby.
I'm glad you got yourself and your baby away from him. Dont trust him around your son, ever.