I’m officially left my husband he started physically harming me right after our son was born and this last time he cracked one of my teeth busted my lip and ripped the thing that’s holds my top lip to my gums that piece of skin he keeps screaming at me everytime he doesn’t get his way or he gets woken up by our son which in all honesty I do everything it’s not like he has to do much when I concerns our son maybe hold him for about 20 min after he is home then my son goes to sleep I’m done he woke me up the other morning screaming at me on how bad a mom and how lazy I am when he wasnt the one up all night with a sick baby my son had been throwing up all night and I just layed down and actually fell asleep well our son was screaming for 10 min and it woke him up that was the day he busted my lip all because I told him he wasn’t a man since he throat slammed me into a couch
What you’ve done absolutely takes courage! Being afraid doesn’t make you weak. Keep your head up, mama.
Good for you for leaving sometimes that can be hard for women but you gotta do whats best for baby n you . God bless u on this journey
@klcreller you need to go like now to a women's shelter in your area and tell them everything, they can keep you safe. I lived in one twice and I felt at peace. They have surveillance cameras and everything. He will hurt the baby to hurt you so do not trust him or anyone else with your baby.
Good! I know how wrong it feels right now. Been there. But just stay strong and know you are making the right choice. Talk with friends, family and lawyer/law officials only. Nobody from his side.
@veemitchell, he is gonna try to take my son from me I know he is and when he don’t get his way he is gonna kill me
@klcreller leaving and making a better life for your baby took strength. Block his number, get a restraining order, and cut off anyone who talks to him. Trust me on that.
No DO NOT communicate with him. You need to move on and get away to your safe spot. Abusers will always try to drag you back in
@oceanbabe424, thank u I just wish I could just forget and move on but it’s only been a day and my heart feels broken and he has been texting my phone saying how much he loves me and he wants me back but I have a feeling tomorrow he is gonna turn angry bc he is already starting to
You are so strong and so amazing for leaving. I don’t have any advice, but I just want you to know how courageous you are.
@veemitchell, @wafflespancakes, I don’t feel like I have any courage especially right now
@cams, I didn’t go to hospital and yes I made a report but all the cops know my husband so I’m sure they r gonna tell him I know he’s gonna come after me so now I’m scared more for my life than my baby’s but starting tomorrow I get to go to a safe house yay me
@klcreller I did too when I left mine. Dont let that make you go back to him. You are a complete person without a shitty abusive man and you dont want him as an example to your son.
I’m glad you had the courage to leave. I know it can’t be easy, but you did the right thing.
I’m glad you left. Did you make a police report or tell the hospital it was your husband that assaulted you?
I'm glad you got yourself and your baby away from him. Dont trust him around your son, ever.