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Heather
busymom_lovinlife
Heather·Мама троих детей

Pissed. So my hubby has been doing a lot of work with this lady getting a mobile home gutted and fixed up for her, her son and mom to live in. Just found out she has been flirting hard core with my hubby, his brother and his brothers dad and his brothers dad cheated on his wife with her just a week ago. My SO has been acting odd about this since he brought up her flirting with him. I can tell when he lies because I've caught him lying about alcohol several times. He's still denying anything but I know something's up.. idk what to do tho. This pisses me off her being a homewrecker and acting all buddy buddy with me to get to my man!! 😡😡

30.07.2018
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bunsinmyoven
BunsInMyOven·Мама троих детей

😞 understandable

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busymom_lovinlife
Heather·Мама троих детей

It's just irritating and upsetting

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busymom_lovinlife
Heather·Мама троих детей

And I just caught him in a lie from a freaking year ago when he stupidly blurted it out tonight during this conversation. I found a naked chicks pic on his phone but he saved it to his gmail and documents so it wasn't in his photos on his phone. Some chick sent him a nude and he said he didn't know how it saved to his phone because all he did was delete the text. His brother warned me a chick sent him a nude and that he was hiding it so I didn't find out. He told me tonight that he saved it because she was very attractive

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bunsinmyoven
BunsInMyOven·Мама троих детей

@busymom_lovinlife, I’m so sorry. Broken trust hurts. Go with your gut.

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busymom_lovinlife
Heather·Мама троих детей

@phoebesmommy I've asked him questions like, has she tried doing anything? And he kept saying no but when I asked if shes tried touching or kissing him he finally came out and said she kissed him randomly on the cheek after he got done pressure washing. It's hard to trust him when he has lied previously, I thought trust was back but when his body language and behavior came back up indicating he's lying 100% then it all came back.

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bunsinmyoven
BunsInMyOven·Мама троих детей

@busymom_lovinlife, wait a sec, so what?! Is he telling you this crap to make you jealous?? Or??? What? I’m sorry you don’t feel you can trust him. Especially since he’s broken trust. That’s totally justified.

I would caution you to use protection if you don’t feel he’s being honest and you sense he’s hiding stuff.

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busymom_lovinlife
Heather·Мама троих детей

@phoebesmommy thank you hun, he is taking his sweet time telling me shit she's done. He claims he didn't know she was flirting and now he told me that she kissed him on the cheek after he got done pressure washing her house. Shes tried making moves to see if he would go for it. I can tell he is still not telling me something. I just want to know. I'm not going to leave him if he did anything, we have so much together and it would destroy my kids. I just want to know and that's all. I hate that he is not telling me what he's trying to hide

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bunsinmyoven
BunsInMyOven·Мама троих детей

But don’t punish him for being honest... you can tell him that you’re feeling uneasy ab him working in that environment.

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bunsinmyoven
BunsInMyOven·Мама троих детей

I’m sorry to hear this. But take a step back. He was honest w you ab her flirting with him??? That’s GOOD. Tell him how much you appreciate his honesty... it doesn’t matter who this woman is.. if your husband is going to cheat, that’s on him. She obviously doesn’t care about other people. She will get hers

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