I lived with my bf until i was 31 weeks. He had gotten another girl pregnant during our breakup and she had her baby first. I moved when she had her baby bc i felt like that was too much for me. Now i moved to a shelter and she stays there most the time. I don’t think I’m jealous but it’s unfair. His family talked about her the whole time she was pregnant now they in her face. I feel so replaced and he haven’t seeked to see me since i left. It’s been two whole months. The closer i get to birth i feel like i should keep my baby to myself for 2 whole months. 😡
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I hVe been betrayed and let down before. He's not doing you nothing but a favor - showing his true colors. Get on your feet, learn from your past and move on for you and baby! I will say a prayer for you.
I would personally put myself/ baby first. I wouldn't keep him out, but would make it his effort to be in her life only. And put him on child support. You will overcome. Believe and be strong @ally_bee
Wow I’m so sorry . That’s heartbreaking to hear . Men can be asses , they get to do whatever they want , say what they want and it’s no consequences for what they do . Only the women have to suffer from a man mistakes. I hope it gets better for you . You don’t need him , you will get on your feet and find someone worthy of you . Don’t keep your baby away from the dad if he reaches out to see her or him . That’s his baby too no matter what he might have out you through you don’t want to mess up the child relationship with the father . I completely understand wanting to keep the child away but your the bigger and better person , he will get his one day . You keep being the strong beautiful women you are and sit back and watch one day he will wish he never done you wrong . But don’t keep the baby away you don’t want your baby mad at you one day for not letting her or him see dad . Who’s to say if you denied him once or twice and then he never wants to see the baby again . True indeed the dad would be missing out but that’s a relationship that’s messed up that could’ve been avoided. Just my opinion. I wish you the best , keep being strong hun .
That is unfair and disrespectful I’m sorry ur goin thru that. Being pregnant is hard as it is.
That's a crazy situation. Regardless what happens in the end God Got You! I'll keep you in prayer that you and kids are good. Even though you may not have the support from your bbydaddy it'll only make you stronger as a mother. Keep your head up and be all you can be for your babies and yourself. You don't need no one in your life who don't want to be there anyways. Take care hope all works it self out. 😉