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Jeanette
Im really stuck between getting my tubes tied after this baby or having another my boyfriend said he might want one more , but I feel like I really dont have the patience to have 3 kids I feel like 2 is enough for me ! I see family and friends struggle with 3 or 4 and I dont want that ! Im so torn between giving my man another baby or just sticking to what I want !! Any advice moms who been through this ????
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mommiieeof2

@colorfuldreams, it had a spot for feetprint and handprint

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mommiieeof2

@colorfuldreams, it had a spot for feetprint and handprint

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imakittykat

@emontesmom, did it have a spot for foot prints ? Or you put them on blank page

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mommiieeof2

@colorfuldreams, I just bought one that u just fill in

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imakittykat

@emontesmom, ohh, I thought they put you to sleep.
Also that’s a good idea to have them put their feet prints in baby book :)
I’m still struggling with what kind of design I want for mine

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mommiieeof2

@colorfuldreams, true but the nurse had my son I saw him as soon as he was born they brought him to me so I can kiss his cheek so they can stitch me up and then I went into recovery and they were bathing my son and doing his feetprint on his birth certificate and I wanted them to out his feetprint in my baby book and they did all that for me I trusted them so I rested , my mom was right there the whole time so I was comfortable .... and when I woke up again I fed him and cuddled him .. when u get a csection they dont put u to sleep just numb from the waiste down but in my case it was an emergency m I was freaking out so they had to put me to sleep but they woke me up just so I can see him right when he was born and kiss him

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imakittykat

@emontesmom, I hope this pregnancy is easier on you this time around.

The main reason I’ve been deciding against c section is the whole, being asleep when she comes part. I want to be first to hold my baby. It’s a moms right, we did all the work 😂😂

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mommiieeof2

@colorfuldreams, c section is a whole different experience I didnt get to hold my son right away because I was asleep from the medicine I woke up when they were giving him a bath . If u push you get ur baby right away

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mommiieeof2

@colorfuldreams, true , im not sure honestly I got a spinal tap and an epidural because my epidural wore off and for the c section I had to get a spinal tap .... honestly you should try and see if you can push and if any complications they’ll give u a emergency c section .. I honestly wish I could of pushed my son out

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imakittykat

@emontesmom, I heard from a few moms that recovery is longer with epidural.
It seems like more people these days get a c section too.
I’m still back and forth on if I should get a c section or not.

One plus is you don’t Tare because they just cut you open

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mommiieeof2

@colorfuldreams, I had the epidural when I was trying to push my son .. vaginally u cant have sex for 6 weeks cause healing so I think c section healing is better time wise .. but im not sure honestly

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imakittykat

@emontesmom, Do you think c section or natural birth is longer recovery ?

I know epidural’s prolong labor

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mommiieeof2

@colorfuldreams, after 4 days I could so some stuff on my own but to be completely healed where the scar dont hurt anymore it took 2 weeks

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imakittykat

@emontesmom, how long does it take to recover from a c section ?

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mommiieeof2

@colorfuldreams, no its fine girl I understand , honestly its painful the healing process it hurts to bend or sit stand and stand up and my boyfriend had to help me do anything but I didn’t want pain medicine I was just taking the pain until it was unbearable then I would take something .... and yeah they prefer it after having one ..

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imakittykat

@emontesmom, Do they make you when you have already had one ?
And how was your experience with getting a c section?
Sorry all the questions, I’m a first time mommy and just a little nervous for the child birth part.

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