This may be a little tmi but... Am i the only one that absolutely hates sex or anything that has to do with it while…

I’m the total opposite. I can’t get enough of my husband especially while pregnant. There’s so much blood flow down there that it makes sex even more enjoyable.

You are not the only one. Pregnancy killed my sex drive. Absolutely killed it, to the point that I didn't even want to cuddle most days.

I was like that at first now I been throwing that thang in a loop it's always like that with me thou

@singermom10, i know a few people like that and of course he hears there stories about it and automatically thinks i should be the same way. He literally thinks there’s something wrong with me or that i don’t want to be with him anymore at all.

@nomli, same. Even cuddling is hard. It’s just so gross and it’s uncomfortable and I’m terrified of hurting the baby.

I felt that way at first but now I can't get enough!

@osteviexmariexmalmo, i hope it changes for me too. I can’t stand it. I miss him but i just can’t get myself to do it. I told him maybe when it’s the last couples weeks we can so we can try to get the baby to come.

If only I could go the whole pregnancy without it🙄💭 too bad my SO isn't so understanding 😭😭

@kneri83, my SO doesn’t understand at all either. at first i was giving in and doing it because i felt bad but it’s gotten to the point that i absolutely refuse and don’t care how mad he gets

I've went through periods of zero drive but not hatred for it - actually desired it back lol - but yeah I feel yeah. Second trimester has been better

@angelfoodcake, it’s now at the point where i won’t do it because I’m afraid I’ll go into preterm labor

I gave in last night but wish I hadn’t. I’ve been in so much pain lately and he don’t get it

I’m at that point now just feel to big to get it on....and I was like that my whole second pregnancy..

@braford.family.adventures @jones101614 we actually haven't been lately anyway - because it can get painful and I think it's contributing to repeat yeast infections 😥 - also I'm not there yet, but I remember last pregnancy at a certain period sex caused major BH. I'll also admit at a certain it just plain uncomfortable, stomach in the way just more trouble then need be.

@3boylife, exactly. There’s just so many things that are keeping me from wanting it.

@angelfoodcake, it’s just been uncomfortable for me since the very beginning. It was like this with my last pregnancy too.

Pregnancy absolutely killed my sex drive. My poor husband has gone with little to none most of the time. And trust me, he has been so frustrated too, to the point of thinking we were no longer "in love" or "compatible" anymore. Its just so uncomfortable for me and now that I'm at 37 weeks its absolutely not an option because we're afraid it will start labor haha. So you're definitely not alone!!

Everytime I was pregnant it was the complete opposite. If your sex drive is low that's one thing, but if you're not having sex with him bc you're worried about the baby that's not neccessary at all. You definitely need to continuously communicate with him about how you're feeling bc if he's feeling rejected and unwanted this may cause serious harm to your relationship over time. Try to be understanding of him and his needs so that he will hopefully return the understanding. If you're that worried about harming your baby then you should talk to your doctor so they can reassure you that it's safe.

I’ve also spent two pregnancies completely alone though too. My oldest child’s donor had a drug problem so we didn’t stay together. Then with my son, his donor decided to just up and leave us when I was 8 weeks along so I was so alone ☹️ I met my husband and I appreciate him so much. He adores me and I’m so in love with him. He isn’t ready for this new baby but he’s still here and my best friend. The last few weeks are very uncomfortable but I want those hands all over me, reminding me that he’s here.

@jones101614 Awww I understand, it's worth it though and will be back to normal soon enough .

@lifeisgood2me, i know it won’t harm the baby but I’m still afraid that it will. But what keeps me from it the most is that it’s just uncomfortable and just the thought of sex is gross to me. I try to explain it all to him but it’s his first baby so he so new to all the pregnancy stuff.

@swedishmomma my husband was like that too esep first trimester, he thought I didn't love him lol

@malbhurtado, I’m sure it will come back after. It did with my first baby.

@angelfoodcake, i think he’s finally slowly starting to understand because he doesn’t ask nearly as much for it. Lately he’s been just satisfying himself but is always telling me he misses me which i miss him to but i just can’t do it

As far as being uncomfortable goes, you're not going to want to do missionary position but there are other alternative positions that are amazing for during pregnancy. But that's only if you could get past the other feelings of not wanting to do it. I hope things get better for you.

@jones101614 story of my life like sex doesn't make sense to me at all right nown

In the first trimester all I wanted was sex but now I don't want to be touched at all.