Just told the OH I'm looking for a place to live on my own with the baby. I am so sick of being in a one sided…

@megan-leigh I know how hard it is and it's horrible to have to go through it on your own!! There is a 19 years age gap between me and my ex so you'd think he would know better. It has only got worse since we split xx

@megan-leigh Aww don't be upset hun, he shouldn't of said what he did! They always say there gunna help and don't just sounds like a man thing tbh they've always got the easy way out xx

@kerryy23 I know I'm trying to put on a brave face for her because I don't want her seeing me this upset but just can't shake it 😭xx

@megan-leigh it sounds like he still has a lot if growing up to do. Hes a father now, he has a little person that's going to rely on him for the next 18+ years of her life..

I think when we become mothers we instantly mature 20 years overnight whereas men don't, my OH is 36 with 6 kids and still has a lot of growing up to do!

As much as its hard try not to let it get to you.. Your little one needs a happy mummy xx

@nataliielouiseexo Its broken my heart that he would even say or think that about me. I've known him 5 years so I thought he knew me better than that. I've literally been crying since 4:30am and I have nowhere to go so I'm stuck here 😭😭😭 xx

@abbyrose At this point I'm done talking. Today he has really broken my heart. He has told me so many times he will help more and he never does 🤦‍♀️ I've been crying since 4:30am. Just wish I had someone I could run to because I literally don't want to see him 😭😭xx

I can't believe he said that to you how awful! I hope you'll be okay, you have your little girl and that's all you need, he sounds like a boy not a man! here if you ever need to talk! xx

@megan-leigh Aww your not shit, your doing great and you give that little girl everything and like you've said you've gave up your life for her. It is hard work and tiring. Maybe talk with him and just ask that once a week you have a lie in even if it's till 8 Its still a lie in to us, it's only fair. Brad said I can have one tomorrow so well see lol xx

@kerryy23 Well he's still not got out of bed so he doesn't care tbh. Just heartbroken about what he said to me. It's awful isn't it xx

Sorry to hear your OH isn't helping out. I still have this struggle with mine and Kylan is 2!

It was also his idea to conceive Kylan and that's what I say to him, you have responsibilities too! A few months ago I had reached my limit and told him unless something changed he would have to leave as I'm doing it all on my own anyway it makes no difference if he's here or not! Hopefully you can manage to get through to him, I know how hard it is xx

@simonecousins2307 Thank you I really appreciate it! I have no family to turn to 😭😭 xx

@megan-leigh I know exactly what your going through! I left my other half last month and moved back to my mum's with Sophie. If you need a chat feel free to message me xx

@andrewsmom04 It's honestly broken my heart that he would even say that never mind think it. Basically because I was angry at him he said it. I would never take my anger out on my daughter. It has truly broken me 💔xx

@megan-leigh that a so random :/ xx

@andrewsmom04 I wasn't even doing anything she was sat in her chair. I shouted at him then basically said that xx

Why did he even say that in the first place what were you doing when he said it ?? Xx

I know Hun he shudnt accuse u like that. Maybe u need a break for him to realise

@jamiechantelle_7x I know I just thought I knew him better than that. Now I'm stuck living with him until i find a place 😭😭 I'm in pieces. We're engaged and was planning on getting married xx

@mrsmowmow Just had enough of it all 😭 xz

@3kidsandkat My fiance works hard but at the end of the day he made the decision that he wanted a baby. So he should take responsibility for her too. If he refuses to help me when I need it most then what's the point. And accusing me saying "don't hurt her" on my daughter. I do everything for her and this is what I get.. If he cared he would of tried to settle it but his bed is more important apparently xx

Ahh that’s such a shame. Some men r just selfish and no doubt when you’ve gone he’ll realise what he’s done x I’m same some times but after 15 years u kinda just get in with it. But I must admit he does provide for us and works very hard so can’t complain in that way but a lil more help around the house wud be lovely x

@abbyrose I'm sick of it. I do absolutely everything. And I begged him to give me one hour in bed because I've had 2 hours sleep and he said no. Like is he taking the piss? He was the one who persuaded me to try for a baby too. And I cannot believe he asked me whether I was going to hurt my baby. I've given up my whole life for her I would never even dream of hurting her. He has really hurt me today and I can't take it anymore. He has made me feel like he doesn't care about me and made me feel like I'm a shit parent. I actually feel so useless it's unreal xx

I've had this row this morning! Brad was ment to get up yesterday and asked if I could have today as my lie in instead I said ok and today he wouldn't get up because he stayed up till half 1 watching the boxing! Like I don't care it isn't my problem, I am so angry I actually don't get it! Like what is 1 day a week to get up with you child!? Bloody men aye xx

@jamiechantelle_7x He clearly doesn't give a shit because he's still in bed. Going to the council in the morning xx