I’ve fallen for this super sweet guy, he is amazing, he can take it when I mess with him and he gives it right back, when I had a seizure he took the time to stay by my side and to make sure I was ok and then he carried me all the way up to the hospital and waited with me all day just to make sure me and the baby where ok. He’s not even the babies father but that doesn’t stop him and I love it!! The baby’s father is incarcerated and tried playing me and this other girl at the same time. But this time I’ve fallen for a man not a boy. He said it was just lust for him but I know it’s more he’s just scared of hurting me which I understand and he’s also scared of being hurt. I just wish there was a way for me to show him that I don’t want to hurt him I want to give his heart a break I want to be the person he comes to when he needs to get something off his chest, for so long he’s been alone so I can see how it would be a big change for him. Any ideas? It saddens me when he pushes me out but I know it’s all fear because his last ex broke him and he hates talking about it but whatever she did she really did damage. I’m determined not to give up on him because I can see he is a good man and I’m not used to it I’m not used to how gentle he is with me I’m not used to the way he talks to me and wants to know my opinion on things.. I’ve been in so many un healthy relationships such as abuse in ever way shape and form to the point to where I have no idea what I’m doing now that I’ve found a healthy relationship.