Apparently I talk to so softly that almost nobody can hear me, it’s super frustrating every time I open my mouth someone just says “HUH?!” And literally yells at me for being quiet... what am I supposed to do?? Go around yelling all the time? I might as well at this point 🤦♀️
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Me and my princess first time getting epidural and I’m numb from legs is this normal i can’t walk good yet
I wish I had a Man by My side who understood the pain of first trimester. So long story short..BD asks Me if I need to pee before He showers I say No. Then after he's in the bathroom for quite sometime he comes out and says he's about to shower..I said I thought You already showered. He said No. Anyway mid shower I have to pee so I text him telling him I have to pee because I dare not knock on the door unless I want to get yelled at and called names. He comes out yelling at Me anyways telling Me he asked Me beforehand I said I didn't have to pee then. Then he goes on to tell Me to hurry up and turn My hotspot on so he can use it. I get up slowly because I'm in a bit of aching this evening then he yells at Me to hurry up..I make My way slowly down the hallway still getting yelled at. I don't know why he thinks I should do anything for him! This is so hard Y'all! I fight back tears every day *darn hormones*
getting yelled at by my granny because I'm eating Cheetos and "they are unhealthy for me" and "the baby isn't going to be healthy" ugh I'm so tired of it. it's not like I eat super unhealthy all the time I try my best.
this is getting old. I'm so sick of my parents and their stupid drama. My mom will not allow me to have a relationship with my dad. Every time I text him or call him, she interferes. She'll actually yell at me for doing things with him! WTF!
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Same. Or they say I'm muttering.
Kiona Ancheta·
Мама сына-младенца
@x_storm, right??!? I never actually mutter either, I’m just quiet 😰😣
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
My son's dad is a quiet talker 🙄 I'm loud as SHIII.
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@anchetakionafe i hate it cuz I'll space out each word clearly and they be acting like they can't comprehend
Kiona Ancheta·
Мама сына-младенца
@kambam, my best friend is loud as heck!!! She never yells at me for being too quiet though, she’s one of the few that understands and will politely ask me to repeat myself if she couldn’t hear me. It just bugs me when people literally yell at me like “WHAT DID YOU SAY??!?” as if I said something offensive or something when I was literally just talking 😰🙃
Kiona Ancheta·
Мама сына-младенца
@x_storm, oh shit right!! I do the same thing!!!! And then people say “don’t patronize me” 🤦♀️😭 can never win!!!
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
Haha I'm the person like WHAT?!?! My son's dad would be able to relate ... as long as you have the ability to be loud I guess.
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@anchetakionafe yesss. Or why you using such big words. 🤦
Kiona Ancheta·
Мама сына-младенца
@kambam, hahaha it’s totally fine every once in a while but my bf does it to me all the time because he worked in a machine shop without ear plugs for over a year 🤦♀️🤷♀️ but I do have the ability to be loud, it just makes me feel like I’m projecting anger, I prefer speaking at a softer tone 🙃
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
Makes sense. Have you ever seen a "loud" sign language fight? Lol
Kiona Ancheta·
Мама сына-младенца
@x_storm, hahaha yes!!! My bf will literally stop me in my sentence to ask me what a certain word means and then I get off track of my thoughts 🤦♀️😅
Kiona Ancheta·
Мама сына-младенца
@kambam, I have not! Sounds very intense though 😰😅 I can only imagine. I’ve heard my grandparents fight in other languages before though and it was scary as shit
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
Oh yeah. I have middle eastern friends and their normal conversations sound like a fight. Like what are y'all talking about? "Oh just about our day" okay... 😆
Kiona Ancheta·
Мама сына-младенца
@kambam, I totally relate to that!!! My grandparents would call back home and I’d think theyd be fighting but they were just causally talking about the weather and shit 🤦♀️😂
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
It's so funny hahaha. Love it
Abby·
В ожидании первенца
Same. I’m always like “are they ignoring me or am I not talking loud enough “ 🙄
Fabi Holly·
Мама дочки-младенца
Same. Sometimes I feel like some people make me repeat myself on purpose 🙄 so that I can talk louder.