Apparently I talk to so softly that almost nobody can hear me, it’s super frustrating every time I open my mouth someone just says “HUH?!” And literally yells at me for being quiet... what am I supposed to do?? Go around yelling all the time? I might as well at this point 🤦♀️
Same. I’m always like “are they ignoring me or am I not talking loud enough “ 🙄
@kambam, I totally relate to that!!! My grandparents would call back home and I’d think theyd be fighting but they were just causally talking about the weather and shit 🤦♀️😂
Oh yeah. I have middle eastern friends and their normal conversations sound like a fight. Like what are y'all talking about? "Oh just about our day" okay... 😆
@kambam, I have not! Sounds very intense though 😰😅 I can only imagine. I’ve heard my grandparents fight in other languages before though and it was scary as shit
@x_storm, hahaha yes!!! My bf will literally stop me in my sentence to ask me what a certain word means and then I get off track of my thoughts 🤦♀️😅
@kambam, hahaha it’s totally fine every once in a while but my bf does it to me all the time because he worked in a machine shop without ear plugs for over a year 🤦♀️🤷♀️ but I do have the ability to be loud, it just makes me feel like I’m projecting anger, I prefer speaking at a softer tone 🙃
Haha I'm the person like WHAT?!?! My son's dad would be able to relate ... as long as you have the ability to be loud I guess.
@x_storm, oh shit right!! I do the same thing!!!! And then people say “don’t patronize me” 🤦♀️😭 can never win!!!
@kambam, my best friend is loud as heck!!! She never yells at me for being too quiet though, she’s one of the few that understands and will politely ask me to repeat myself if she couldn’t hear me. It just bugs me when people literally yell at me like “WHAT DID YOU SAY??!?” as if I said something offensive or something when I was literally just talking 😰🙃
Same. Sometimes I feel like some people make me repeat myself on purpose 🙄 so that I can talk louder.