@missmysleep, wow, now that is beyond rude and disrespectful! Honestly wonder how some people’s minds work!!! Congratulations xx

Yep I had this. We found out we are having a third boy and then people were asking me if I was ok...like as if it was bad news 😂

@mummymir yes most definitely it is really bad.... Some point I didn't want to tell anyone Coz u kind of know what they're going to say

@leanne2016, of course hun it would be lovely for a little girl but the way people choose to word things is just awful x

@mrsmowmow, that’s exactly how it comes across as though it’s a bad thing? Really pisses me off it’s so rude and really quite hurtful xx

@georgina-ox, we are so lucky to have our babies people are just ignorant!xx

It'll be nice for me to have a girl.... but wouldn't care either way.... as I planned on having a 3rd as I want a 3rd but I get the same messages like u... and yes it's jarring

@mummymir, exactly hunni a happy healthy baby is all that matter they all do the same thing lol just in pink or blue lol 😂 xxx

@tazrobs89, well said that’s exactly how I felt with this baby I had the same comments with my 2nd born but I thought no I will share our news because we are so excited, happy & blessed xx

@jennypoulter, I’ve not had the next time comment yet 😂 xx

Omg it’s dose my head in I have 5 boys and we didn’t have more kids because we was trying for a girl we had another baby because we wanted one when I found out I was pregnant I didn’t want to tell anyone because I new the comments I would get I was soo excited when we found out he was a boy I could wait to post it online xxx

@mummymir, I hate that surely the baby itself is a joy wether it's a boy or girl my partners grandad said oh well there's allways next time. Next time how many children do I need 😂 x

@jennypoulter, what about it is a ‘shame’ that’s what I mean the wording people choose is what really shocks and annoys me!xx

@hstewart89, good for you I too don’t care and this is my third and yes you’re totally right their health is what matters x

@7littlegems, it’s just so rude, the comments are unnecessary it really pisses me off x

We're on our third girl we do have a son but when we told everyone it was another girl they were like that's a shame would of been nice to have 2 of each erm no a baby is a baby and I'm quite happy to have a girl gang 🙄 maybe it's our hormones lol x

@courtniek98x, isn’t it just so annoying when they do that! Had it with my 2nd born little boy, don’t know why people are like it x

@ezchaz, I think the parents bringing the child into the world would also think it would be lovely to have one of each 🤣 the comments are rude especially the wording they choose to use x

As long as your healthy what would it matter xx

I've got this, I hope it's a boy like a girl would be awful or something it's our first baby I don't care what the gender is as long as it's healthy and happy xx

Erm yep I’m still getting it now went the midwife yday new one I’ve not seen oh this is ur 7th bby what do u have at home 6 boys what u having this time a boy oh r u gonna try for a girl erm nope !

YES! Everyone in my OH’s family was saying “oooh boy this time” and “I hope it’s a boy” then when we found out this baby is another girl they were all “awww she’s gonna be so beautiful” this that and the other and I was so pissed off 🤦🏼‍♀️xxx