Mummy’s of same gender babies! I have just announced our third pregnancy to family & friends, and I…
Mummy’s of same gender babies! I have just announced our third pregnancy to family & friends, and I have been inundated with messages saying ‘congratulations! You must be hoping for a girl this time?’ Honestly so many of the same message, and on the phone to my family they’re saying ‘hopefully a girl this time!’. Or ‘fingers crossed for a girl’. Why do people do this?? We are having a third child because we WANT a third child, I think it’s so rude because it’s implying we wouldn’t be happy if it was our third boy 😠 it really upsets me. I love my kids so much! Me & my OH love guessing but for other people to say we ‘must be hoping’ & ‘fingers crossed it’s a girl this time’ is really rude, I think anyway. Have any of you same gender mummy’s experienced the same?x
Courtnie·
YES! Everyone in my OH’s family was saying “oooh boy this time” and “I hope it’s a boy” then when we found out this baby is another girl they were all “awww she’s gonna be so beautiful” this that and the other and I was so pissed off 🤦🏼♀️xxx
.·
Erm yep I’m still getting it now went the midwife yday new one I’ve not seen oh this is ur 7th bby what do u have at home 6 boys what u having this time a boy oh r u gonna try for a girl erm nope !
Hollie Stewart·
I've got this, I hope it's a boy like a girl would be awful or something it's our first baby I don't care what the gender is as long as it's healthy and happy xx
Hollie Stewart·
As long as your healthy what would it matter xx
MummyMir·
@ezchaz, I think the parents bringing the child into the world would also think it would be lovely to have one of each 🤣 the comments are rude especially the wording they choose to use x
MummyMir·
@courtniek98x, isn’t it just so annoying when they do that! Had it with my 2nd born little boy, don’t know why people are like it x
Jennifer Poulter·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
We're on our third girl we do have a son but when we told everyone it was another girl they were like that's a shame would of been nice to have 2 of each erm no a baby is a baby and I'm quite happy to have a girl gang 🙄 maybe it's our hormones lol x
MummyMir·
@7littlegems, it’s just so rude, the comments are unnecessary it really pisses me off x
MummyMir·
@hstewart89, good for you I too don’t care and this is my third and yes you’re totally right their health is what matters x
MummyMir·
@jennypoulter, what about it is a ‘shame’ that’s what I mean the wording people choose is what really shocks and annoys me!xx
Jennifer Poulter·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@mummymir, I hate that surely the baby itself is a joy wether it's a boy or girl my partners grandad said oh well there's allways next time. Next time how many children do I need 😂 x
tara ·
Omg it’s dose my head in I have 5 boys and we didn’t have more kids because we was trying for a girl we had another baby because we wanted one when I found out I was pregnant I didn’t want to tell anyone because I new the comments I would get I was soo excited when we found out he was a boy I could wait to post it online xxx
MummyMir·
@jennypoulter, I’ve not had the next time comment yet 😂 xx
MummyMir·
@tazrobs89, well said that’s exactly how I felt with this baby I had the same comments with my 2nd born but I thought no I will share our news because we are so excited, happy & blessed xx
tara ·
@mummymir, exactly hunni a happy healthy baby is all that matter they all do the same thing lol just in pink or blue lol 😂 xxx
leanne·
Мама двоих (2 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
It'll be nice for me to have a girl.... but wouldn't care either way.... as I planned on having a 3rd as I want a 3rd but I get the same messages like u... and yes it's jarring
MummyMir·
@georgina-ox, we are so lucky to have our babies people are just ignorant!xx
MummyMir·
@mrsmowmow, that’s exactly how it comes across as though it’s a bad thing? Really pisses me off it’s so rude and really quite hurtful xx
MummyMir·
@leanne2016, of course hun it would be lovely for a little girl but the way people choose to word things is just awful x
leanne·
Мама двоих (2 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
@mummymir yes most definitely it is really bad.... Some point I didn't want to tell anyone Coz u kind of know what they're going to say
Miss My Sleep·
Yep I had this. We found out we are having a third boy and then people were asking me if I was ok...like as if it was bad news 😂
MummyMir·
@missmysleep, wow, now that is beyond rude and disrespectful! Honestly wonder how some people’s minds work!!! Congratulations xx