Soo I just found out that my sons father is dating a 16 year old and even made her get his named tattoed. He is 26 years old....idk how to feel but i do know that i feel disgusted, he has a sister the same age & its likee how do you get turned on by a child ??? Im starting to think that i shouldnt let my son be around him, idk ! Me and him broke up a long time ago and im happily married with someone else and having a baby by the man im with now. Im not jealouse cus i have no feelings for this man but i feel as if i should play safe with my son because idk what kind of mentality he has if hes datingg a little girl basically.
@briealyus, he’s dumb he cn go to jail for that soo easily and get registered as a sex offender if she wanted to turn against him and get him in trouble ..
My dad loved young girls too his babymom was a yr older than me n 5 yrs younger than my sister.... she was 17 n he was in his 40z.... he was a great dad to me n ma sibling but i dont fully trust him bcuz of it.... i give him hell about it all he talks about is the fact that he sent her through university and paid all her expenses n now have 2 kids together.... i dont allow him to be alone with me son.... my son talk really well n express himself well but i just dont trust him with my son...i told him he just tured 3 wen hes 8 hell probably be able ro c him more
Ephebophilia in adults (attraction to 15-19 year olds) is just as damaging to the child as pedophilia and should be treated as a serious issue that needs to be resolved in all families. Whether they're sexually involved or not isn't the most important part. It's more important that he's clearly manipulating a minor into a relationship she can't legally consent to. When it comes down to him seeing his child or not, I'm 100% on your side. He needs to completely reevaluate his decisions and who he is as a person. For pedophiles, this sometimes isn't even possible. Some aren't willing to let go of their unhealthy attraction to younger minors and he's clearly so far gone in his mind, he's gone as far as to start a relationship with a girl 10 years younger than him. If he's able to see this young girl as an object he can use for his enjoyment, I can't imagine he is fully capable of caring for a young boy with the compassion and maturity level it requires. You're clearly the parent who's concerned for the child's well being. If this were reported to the police and to social services, I believe you'd be supported in your decision to gain full custody as long as you can provide full proof of the illegal relationship. I wish you the best!
I totally agree and I'd feel the same. Definitely keep your kid away. Only pedophiles think it's ok to sleep with children.
Yeah i deff agree with you on that because that’s straight up pedo 🤮
As a kid I went through something like that and still legally and emotionally dealing with that ..that is disgusting and should definitely be reported ..I would definitely find out the girl's name and report them .. I'm sure her parents wouldn't like that either if they are in their right minds!!!! Never be afraid or ashamed to protect your child!! As a man even if your kid is a baby he is teaching him that and the kid will learn that as he gets older and will either be for it as well or against it not tolerable in my mind
I wouldn't be concerned with him around my child but I would be concerned that he's breaking the law (if they're sexually involved). That makes me sick.
@briealyus, good! Yes, it’s an opioid.. the withdrawal is the same. It’s very dangerous. I’m glad your boys got you!! At least he’s got a good momma:) don’t feel bad about restricting their visits, it is necessary!
He’s a pedophille 😑 no 26 year old man should date a 16 year old
@lizsouthwick, Ive never personally seen em withdrawl but i have heard thats is just like heroin withdrawl and yea he def got some issues and im def gonna take some actions for my sons safety
@briealyus, you ever seen someone withdrawing from them? Omgosh it’s terrible! My neighbor literally looks dead, she takes them. I hope he doesn’t drive with your kiddo! Ahhh this is scary. I’d make him go to treatment, a judge can order that if it’s a concern & there’s proof.. anyway, the 16 yo thing is plain wrong. Sounds like that man has some demons. Pray for him & do what’s best for your children!
@mombassador, exactly and my son is only 3... he talks but not clearly enough to understand what certain things are
Ok yes that’s disturbing af but that he’s addicted to Percocet is major! He cannot possibly care for a child taking that crap! Not well anyway!
Your definitely right about that you never know anymore, sometimes it can be people inside your home who you never would've thought as well. The signs are different for everyone. I've seen some sick things (Steve Wilkos)
@jacob_mommy, 🤢🤮🤮 it really is! I feel disgusted ughhh
@mombassador, my sons father takes percocet, hes an addict and i still let him see my son whenever he does chooses to see him, i dont bother him or ask him for anything, he doesnt help me financially nd he sees him about once a month sometimes he will last longer. I never minded him seeing my son at all but now that i noe this its like idk what his true intentions are. If you can sit there and have sex with a minor, what else are u capable of ? And im very protective with my son because now a days anything can happen and u never noe who you truly can trust.
Has he ever done wrong by your child? Who knows how long he has been dating her which is insane. If your child hasn't been in any danger I don't see why you would want to take him
@marielovely, yea my Gmom was telling me that & she said i should get an order protection, he doesnt help me with my son anyways, he doesnt get diapers, wipes or anything like ever !! He only gets his sneakers that come out once in a while and will only see him about once a month. Im over all of it
@briealyus, he’s dumb he cn go to jail for that soo easily and get registered as a sex offender if she wanted to turn against him and get him in trouble ..
@kelley.blue, @braford.family.adventures, exactly..... its like how do you get turned on and have sex with a 16 year old ? Its sickk to me
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He’s a pedophille 😑 no 26 year old man should date a 16 year old