So I guess I'm not a ghost to my SO anymore but I'm to clean house, take care of kid, cook him dinners, dress nice with make up, take martial arts classes and be in good mood while doing so and be spontaneous and adventurous I'm thinking is that even possible?
@j.vmommy, thankfully I have a 11yo son who helps me so much but with a baby coming, I know it’s going to be hard.. especially when I’m literally expected to do absolutely everything.. like you said..& put on a happy face or else 🤷🏼♀️ it’s ridiculous. I’m here for ya girl. Sounds like we’ve got the same “role” to play
@lizsouthwick, me too I feel like my life is on pause until my son can do things for himself n then who knows what's next cuz there are times where I just don't want to get out of bed but I do ofc
@j.vmommy, I feel you.. I feel like a servant 😞
@lizsouthwick, lol I barely have the energy or time to do what I want to do lol also I have to be up at 6:30am to take him to work 🤦🏽♀️
@phoebesmommy, 🤷🏽♀️ he says I don't help clean tho I stopped cleaning the dang kitchen because when I did he come home n make food n leave the dish n throw his clothes on the floor so I went on strike lol when I feed my son I use the same dish just rewash it but he doesn't hand wash the dishes he rather use the dishwasher which that's fine with me but the ones that stack up are his cuz I barely have an appetite I feed my son when he's at work n we either sleep cuz my son sleep schedule is all out of wack or watch movies I pick up my sons toys n he just takes them all out again so 🤷🏽♀️🙄
I mean yes anything is possible (just not 24/7) but why so much pressure?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

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