I feel so over whelmed today it's not even funny

I have a sign that says NO SMOKING & what do i find cig butts laying around all the time ashes on my glass side tables 3 holes burnt in my couch I just purchased and a whole bunch of other shit .... don't no one respect shit around here I can throw everyone and they mama out and it still don't matter bc it's my boyfriend's friends and he just keeps letting them do it and he even fucking1does it and I am like about to explode no one helps clean up either just me me me me me me me and me again and I am due in 9 days and feel like snapping the fuck out