Im still not dilated & he said if i get induced the 31st i would have to get a c-cection so i gotta wait till either my water brakes and i call my doctor and see whats gonna go on or wait till August 7. Im so sad i want her here but at lease shes healthy and he said shes up there that my pelvis is good though so thats awesome news
@ek620 he's making me wait till my water breaks like its bullshit we wont give me pitocin to start anything he said he can give me a c-cection or just wait so its aggravating
@izzabellamamasbabygirl, If you don’t want a c section then you can decline. He cannot force you to have surgery if you don’t want to. I personally declined an induction & went into labor on my own at 41 weeks.
@izzabellamamasbabygirl, that’s crazy! I would fight that. If you don’t want a c-section! He should atleast try to induce and let you’re body try. That sounds like a lazy Dr to me! I would be so pissed.
@izzabellamamasbabygirl, I’m not sure, Last appointment was 2 weeks ago and it was my strep b test, I was so anxious to leave I forgot to stop by the front desk and make a fallow up appointment. Now every time I call the obs office I wait over 10 mins to be connected! So I hang up.. lol.... and @ek620, I did not know that!
@raquely i asked and he said that just how he does it
@leahkay wow thats crazy i didnt know that thank u so much for telling me that
With my first I didn't dilate until the day I went into labor. That morning I had an appointment and was 1/2 a centimeter dilated. My cervix was still up high too. That night at 3 in the morning I woke up from a contraction and my water broke about 15 minutes later. I was 41 weeks 5 days. Sometimes you just don't dilate before you're actually in labor.
@raquely im not sure he didnt give me any other options
You can decline an induction & wait until you go into labor naturally @mortonmining
I’m 39 weeks, due July 31st. I’m starting to feel like if I don’t have this baby in the next few days I’m gonna have to be induced as well,... 😐😐
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
UPDATE: Well i wemt back to doctor still at 5cm was sent back home my doctor said i havent dilated anymore so she said thats a good thing and she said she wanna induce me but she didnt because im 36 weeks so im dealing with pain until i hit 40 weeks witch i really hate but she also said if baby comes shes not gonna stop it so im just playing the waiting game while having contractions and still scard ima go in labor at home!!!!
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
Good morning ladies. Sorry I been ignoring yall but I have been so miserable the past days I'M STILL PREGNANT my contractions would be strong for hours and it looked like I was gonna have a baby then everything just stopped so I got sent home. they said I have to wait till my appointment Wednesday so I can talk to my doctor about the next step. I HATE THIS 😢😢😩
@izzabellamamasbabygirl, is there any other Dr you can see? You’re really going to have to stand up for yourself if you don’t want a c section right off the bat. That is the most absurd thing I have heard. I was induced and went 27 hrs and they were pushing a c section on me. I fought and gave birth to my son fine. When the Dr came in and put a clock on me. I told them I wanted a different Dr and they got me one. You’re going to have to fight for what is right for you and you’re baby. Unless he has a medical reason for c section. He needs to let you’re body do what it was designed to do! At least give it a chance!!