Im still not dilated & he said if i get induced the 31st i would have to get a c-cection so i gotta wait till either my water brakes and i call my doctor and see whats gonna go on or wait till August 7. Im so sad i want her here but at lease shes healthy and he said shes up there that my pelvis is good though so thats awesome news
@ek620 he's making me wait till my water breaks like its bullshit we wont give me pitocin to start anything he said he can give me a c-cection or just wait so its aggravating
@izzabellamamasbabygirl, If you don’t want a c section then you can decline. He cannot force you to have surgery if you don’t want to. I personally declined an induction & went into labor on my own at 41 weeks.
@izzabellamamasbabygirl, that’s crazy! I would fight that. If you don’t want a c-section! He should atleast try to induce and let you’re body try. That sounds like a lazy Dr to me! I would be so pissed.
@izzabellamamasbabygirl, I’m not sure, Last appointment was 2 weeks ago and it was my strep b test, I was so anxious to leave I forgot to stop by the front desk and make a fallow up appointment. Now every time I call the obs office I wait over 10 mins to be connected! So I hang up.. lol.... and @ek620, I did not know that!
@raquely i asked and he said that just how he does it
@leahkay wow thats crazy i didnt know that thank u so much for telling me that
With my first I didn't dilate until the day I went into labor. That morning I had an appointment and was 1/2 a centimeter dilated. My cervix was still up high too. That night at 3 in the morning I woke up from a contraction and my water broke about 15 minutes later. I was 41 weeks 5 days. Sometimes you just don't dilate before you're actually in labor.
@raquely im not sure he didnt give me any other options
You can decline an induction & wait until you go into labor naturally @mortonmining
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@izzabellamamasbabygirl, is there any other Dr you can see? You’re really going to have to stand up for yourself if you don’t want a c section right off the bat. That is the most absurd thing I have heard. I was induced and went 27 hrs and they were pushing a c section on me. I fought and gave birth to my son fine. When the Dr came in and put a clock on me. I told them I wanted a different Dr and they got me one. You’re going to have to fight for what is right for you and you’re baby. Unless he has a medical reason for c section. He needs to let you’re body do what it was designed to do! At least give it a chance!!