Has anyone miscarried before and can answer a question for me? I had a appointment for pre-op for the d&c, but this…
Has anyone miscarried before and can answer a question for me? I had a appointment for pre-op for the d&c, but this morning I started bleeding on my own. They move my appointment closer and tell me it’s a follow up and bottoms off and so fourth and they get the transvaginal u/s ready. I didn’t agree and the Dr was rude and told me that I was in the wrong place?? I don’t know who wants a big ass stick in their vagina when their miscarrying bleeding and cramping very bad. He was beyond rude and I ended up just going home. Now I need to know if anyone miscarried natural and how it went? Not too sure what to do.
Ashlee Golding·
Мама троих детей
Many times you’re a lot more fertile after a loss, yes. If it passes naturally there’s no clinical reason to wait unless you have complications. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. And yes a vaginal ultrasound is actually very common procedure to make sure the baby and everything has passed and nothing is retained but I can totally understand why you’d pass on that. Hugs.
waitingonbaby2·
Мама сына (4 года)
@trinityjazmine99 we waited 3 cycles mainly because I was a mess and decided to book a last minute trip to Disneyland haha so we went in June and I wanted to ride rides haha then we tried the week after we got back and yeah, it happen first try!
Alexis·
@waitingonbaby2, He wants to try again as soon as it passes. We’re not too sure how long we’re suppose to wait. was it easier after the mc? Congratulations 💓💋
waitingonbaby2·
Мама сына (4 года)
@trinityjazmine99 I used a heating pad a lot and just lots of rest, I hope it all passes quickly for you ❤️ and we had our loss in March and I'm already pregnant again... So don't lose hope !
Alexis·
@waitingonbaby2, The thing is both my babies vanished. So I know there’s nothing there and I just started officially miscarrying and im in so much pain. i definitely don’t want anything inside my vaginal. I’m so so sorry for your loss and god bless you for being such a strong woman
waitingonbaby2·
Мама сына (4 года)
I started bleeding and I got a vaginal ultrasound and it was the most painful thing in my life!! But I wanted to make sure the baby didn't have a heartbeat. I knew it didn't but I felt I needed that before agreeing to anything. I eventually did it all at home , it hurt.... But I got to keep the baby and I buried it in a tree. I did end up in the ER when the bleeding got bad after I passed the baby I had a few clotx that were stuck
Alexis·
So sorry for your losses everyone! I will be going back to the doctors when I am no longer bleeding.
Azianeshay·
@laniejay, she is correct I had to get a trans vaginal when I miscarried it wasn’t that bad
Lanie Jay·
Мама троих детей
The ultrasound is to confirm see if you’ve passed everything. He should have been better at explaining things.
Valerie Khan·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (1 нед.)
I had a s stillborn on week 29, how far where you?