Has anyone miscarried before and can answer a question for me? I had a appointment for pre-op for the d&c, but this morning I started bleeding on my own. They move my appointment closer and tell me it’s a follow up and bottoms off and so fourth and they get the transvaginal u/s ready. I didn’t agree and the Dr was rude and told me that I was in the wrong place?? I don’t know who wants a big ass stick in their vagina when their miscarrying bleeding and cramping very bad. He was beyond rude and I ended up just going home. Now I need to know if anyone miscarried natural and how it went? Not too sure what to do.
@trinityjazmine99 we waited 3 cycles mainly because I was a mess and decided to book a last minute trip to Disneyland haha so we went in June and I wanted to ride rides haha then we tried the week after we got back and yeah, it happen first try!
@waitingonbaby2, He wants to try again as soon as it passes. We’re not too sure how long we’re suppose to wait. was it easier after the mc? Congratulations 💓💋
@trinityjazmine99 I used a heating pad a lot and just lots of rest, I hope it all passes quickly for you ❤️ and we had our loss in March and I'm already pregnant again... So don't lose hope !
@waitingonbaby2, The thing is both my babies vanished. So I know there’s nothing there and I just started officially miscarrying and im in so much pain. i definitely don’t want anything inside my vaginal. I’m so so sorry for your loss and god bless you for being such a strong woman
I started bleeding and I got a vaginal ultrasound and it was the most painful thing in my life!! But I wanted to make sure the baby didn't have a heartbeat. I knew it didn't but I felt I needed that before agreeing to anything. I eventually did it all at home , it hurt.... But I got to keep the baby and I buried it in a tree. I did end up in the ER when the bleeding got bad after I passed the baby I had a few clotx that were stuck
So sorry for your losses everyone! I will be going back to the doctors when I am no longer bleeding.
@laniejay, she is correct I had to get a trans vaginal when I miscarried it wasn’t that bad
The ultrasound is to confirm see if you’ve passed everything. He should have been better at explaining things.
I had a s stillborn on week 29, how far where you?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
Hey I’m 26 with two children #myfirstpost
Okay I’ll be real and explained why I joined, I didn’t know I could be looked up or anyone would actually see this post, I was informed someone I know has been stealing pics and I came to look and see what’s going on if any of mine were on there or anyone else I knew. I just typed until it let me post since it was required before I could look around on the app.
For four days I been bleeding brown blood does anyone know why? I already had my period
Anyone else get mistaken for being a lot younger then they actually are?! I find it rude when strangers are consistently asking me if my kids are mine or my age or calling me a baby before knowing how old I really am 🙄. Why is it so hard to mind ya business?
Many times you’re a lot more fertile after a loss, yes. If it passes naturally there’s no clinical reason to wait unless you have complications. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. And yes a vaginal ultrasound is actually very common procedure to make sure the baby and everything has passed and nothing is retained but I can totally understand why you’d pass on that. Hugs.