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I’ve been having so much trouble trying to maintain three children. My newest baby was completely unexpected I know it…

I’ve been having so much trouble trying to maintain three children. My newest baby was completely unexpected I know it sounds crazy but I didn’t even know I was pregnant with her until the day I had her. With my other two I was induced so I’ve never been in natural labor before and I was having contractions didn’t even know they were contractions. I didn’t have a thing for her not diapers , not clothes , not a bed ANYTHING! She was 3 weeks overdue I hadn’t been to a single doctor appointment all because I didn’t know. I had a period my whole pregnancy I got bigger but not much so I thought I was just getting fat. I suffered from post partum depression for the first time after I had her it lasted about a month and I didn’t even realize that’s what I was going through until now that I’m looking back on it. At times I truly want to cry because I’m really doing the best I can and it seems like it’s not enough I’m ashamed that she doesn’t have everything but I am making due. I just want the three of them to be happy.

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alexis31

Alexis

WOW! Such a amazing story.

rowdy-vajazzy

Rowdy Vajazzy

Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)

@team_three, is her father involved? Hopefully he can help you get all she needs. Your kids are gorgeous!

team_three

Randi

Мама троих детей

@phoebesmommy, I think they estimated because I was only sexually active with one person the end of june of last year and we parted ways almost immediately after and the new guy I was dating was in jail up until February of this year so I wasn’t with anyone else. And before he went to jail I never slept with him so I think they estimated from that time frame

bunsinmyoven

BunsInMyOven

Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

Howd they know you were 3 weeks overdue if you didn’t know you were pregnant???

team_three

Randi

Мама троих детей

@rowdy-vajazzy, oh its okay I’m used to answering them not and I got yo to go to work at 6am I had to be there at 7 and they were every 3 minutes. I thought it was weird that there was a pattern to the pain I just didn’t know what the pain was. I got to the hospital about 6:45 and they said I was 3 dilated

bunsinmyoven

BunsInMyOven

Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

@team_three, 😂😂 what a surprise!! Are you doing better now? Don’t feel bad. She has all she needs- love, food and shelter

team_three

Randi

Мама троих детей

@phoebesmommy, no I honestly didn’t feel her moving which is crazy because she was my biggest baby. She was 8 pounds smh and they leaked once but I thought it was because of my son. If you go on my profile you’ll see I asked about him being fascinated with my boobs lately lol

rowdy-vajazzy

Rowdy Vajazzy

Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)

@phoebesmommy, me too! Sorry for bombarding you with questions @team_three. Just soooo curious/nosy.

rowdy-vajazzy

Rowdy Vajazzy

Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)

You should go on that show “I didn’t know I was pregnant”!!! I don’t know if they still make that show, but this would be a great one to watch! I’ve heard of people who still get their periods while pregnant. How long did the contractions go on before you went to the hospital?

bunsinmyoven

BunsInMyOven

Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

I can’t get over how adorable your babies are. I’m so blown away by this story!! Didn’t your boobs leak?? I mean soooooo many questions lol

bunsinmyoven

BunsInMyOven

Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

You never experienced her moving??

team_three

Randi

Мама троих детей

@miaheka, that’s what the hospital said. She just came on her own that’s the way I found out

team_three

Randi

Мама троих детей

@justgotaname, thank you

team_three

Randi

Мама троих детей

@phoebesmommy, I kept having a period or at least what I thought was one. Every month I still bled for 3-4 days

bunsinmyoven

BunsInMyOven

Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

Wow this is a crazy story

justgotaname

Justgotaname

Мама двоих (5 лет, 8 лет)

What a shock!!! They sure look happy! 😍

miaheka

Malaina Heka

Мама сына-младенца

You had her at 43 weeks? 😳😱

So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s…

So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that

Probably a cray question to ask, but when did y’all start to wash your newborns clothes and putting them away? Like I’ve…

Probably a cray question to ask, but when did y’all start to wash your newborns clothes and putting them away? Like I’ve been getting clothes since I found out what I was having but I haven’t taken off tags yet or washed anything. I’m 30 weeks. It’s crazy because with my other 3 kids I didn’t really wash a lot of their stuff at first (got lazy) ALSO what laundry detergent did you use if you didn’t use Dreft? Because i saw Pyrex for Baby an didn’t know if anyone tried it??