@avianlouiebos maybe baby is trying to make you happy by smiling when he sees you cry

@crharmer when i cry hell smile though so obviously not feeding off of that and no idea what dad does different baby is just happier around everyone else but me

@avianlouiebos what does his dad do differently from you? Also the other women weren't lying on this forum when they said babies can feed off your emotions. If you're stressed and worried he will sense that and react.

@crharmer as soon as i took him this morning he woke up and now he wont stop crying and hes fed and changed and everything

@crharmer his dad had him

@avianlouiebos good to hear! What worked last night?

@crharmer he slept really well tonight :)

@loving-life same and I get it. On one hand I just want to give up and on the other hand it's hard to stop being so persistent when I know her child is suffering as well. I also think to myself that what if someday something I says actually makes it click for her.

Girls why don't you just let go, she post things yet refuses help!!! I've messaged her 10000000 times all she answers is yes no yes no yes no! Why bother then?????🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

@carusod91 yes, 100%. She has some sort of depression, whether its post partum or not. Its obvious in the way she talks and shes admitted to it and not wanting help for it.

I had post partum depression with my second and it was a God awful feeling and funk I was in. I didn't even realize I had it, just figured that's how life was now with two kids. Once I finally sought help life was so much better and I was happier which in turn made my kids happier too.

@crharmer, life will be a hell of a lot easier if you just do something about it, right?! Motherhood is NOT easy but doooo something about it !!

@carusod91 everyone has suggested the same thing and unfortunately shes blatantly said she doesn't want help for herself or her child. It's really sad and I hope she chooses to do something for her son and herself soon because it would make a world of a difference in both of their happiness levels.

Oh wow how is he sleeping at night?

Call river crest medical in St. Albert and book an appt with a paediatrician to see what’s going on. I’ve noticed you don’t have a doctor for your son that you’re supposed to see for 2 week c/u, 2 months, 4 months, 6 months, 12 months, etc. Also. Try another formula. I’m gonna keep recommending that because I know you haven’t really switched.