My friend had a question that I can not answer: if her boyfriend tested for Chlamydia and it came back positive she more then likely has it? She is 18 weeks pregnant and was wondering on how to call and ask the OB to get tested again and I honestly don’t know what to say to her
If they’ve been having unprotected sex, yeah it’s likely that she does. She needs to get tested and get rid of his ass.
@damn.it.red, agree with you 🙄 she was negative beginning of pregnancy so she said she is embarrassed to ask the ob office to retest
@paigerue2013, well if it comes back positive now she gonna know his ass been fucking around while she been pregnant. 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️ she will proli stay
@paigerue2013, tell her there’s no need to be embarrassed. Her OB does these tests all the time. Her health is the most important thing.
@damn.it.red, I hope to god she doesn’t he’s a low life and could care less about her not shocked that he would give her an STD
She needs to retest so that she doesn’t give it to the baby. Sometimes chlamydia puts Mom & baby at a higher risk for stillbirth, premature birth, and miscarriage too. So if he cheated, he put both of their health/lives in danger. Honestly in this situation, I’d just cut his penis off and call it a day.
She needs to not have sex with her partner for a while until they both are treated and know it’s 100 percent safe. Nothing to be embarrassed about at all. Doctors do these tests all the time they want you and your baby safe so make sure she calls them and gets the appointment made asappp!
I think they test multiple times ?? Not sure though . She can just go to planned parenthood as well.
@damn.it.red, I hope she does too I didn’t know any of this stuff...so I didn’t know what to say trying to be there for her but if she isn’t willing to better herself I don’t know what to do
@briannalynn547 they usually only test at the beginning (at least with my pregnancies they did)
@hazelnautumnsmomma, oh alright , I thought I got it done more than once but I could be wrong
@spookylyn, didn’t know that lol I am being supportive! Def want her to go get checked! But I honestly did not know the difference between an STD or STI thought they were all the same lol
@paigerue2013, @spookylyn, if my husband cheats on me I’m shooting him
@briannalynn547 maybe different doctors test more often?. I'm not sure. (I'm not saying you're wrong lol) if they tested me more than once then I just didn't know about it lol
@hazelnautumnsmomma, it might’ve just been hiv they tested more than once for
My sister had chlamydia 2 times while being pregnant.. by the same dude 🙄 but yes that’s exactly what she should do. Just ask the doc and they’ll give her either a big/quicker round of meds or a week of not as strong. But they made my sister sick both times. Also she doesn’t have to explain anything, ask for the test, get the meds and take all of them! Screw how it happened, just gotta make sure baby’s okay
@hazelnautumnsmomma, I was high risk though so maybe if they did that’s why 😅😂
@briannalynn547 oooh that's probably why! I wasn't high risk. I don't think he even tested me my second pregnancy because they were so close and I was only with my hubby and he was only with me.
@hazelnautumnsmomma, yeah that’s probably why then 😅😅 hopefully this woman finds out and her and baby are healthy though !
@briannalynn547 yes! I think they'll be just fine as long as she talks to her doctor and gets the meds.
@mama.kay, I agree with that! She wants me to call and say something 🤦🏼♀️ lol I probably will just do it because I don’t want anything to happen to her or her little girl!
@paigerue2013, lol I was the sameee way with my sister! I had to drag her ass in cause she was so embarrassed. But I was like no no lady, this baby is way more important than anyone pride. You’re a good friend mamas!
Mostly like she does... same shut happened with me but he didn't tell me he had I found out thru my ob... I was so lucky it didn't pass thru my baby
My dr did a 30 week STD/STI screen.....as a follow up in case something hadn’t appeared in the first. However, that’s a long wait, so encourage her to ask the dr for it. There’s nothing to be ashamed of, as the dr deals with this type of thing daily. She may want to specify what STD/STI she wants to test for, it give them a few so they can make sure she’s safe. Baby should be her first concern, then she can address the boy and his wandering
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If they’ve been having unprotected sex, yeah it’s likely that she does. She needs to get tested and get rid of his ass.
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She needs to retest so that she doesn’t give it to the baby. Sometimes chlamydia puts Mom & baby at a higher risk for stillbirth, premature birth, and miscarriage too. So if he cheated, he put both of their health/lives in danger. Honestly in this situation, I’d just cut his penis off and call it a day.