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Darrian Jones

Oklahoma moms I have a question in regards to the last name on the birth certificate, my fiance and…

Oklahoma moms I have a question in regards to the last name on the birth certificate, my fiance and I have been engaged since December of last year and found out we were pregnant in March. We've been trying to plan a wedding but now with the baby on the way we don't want it to seem like a shotgun wedding that and we just can't afford that when money needs to go to baby. So my question is, if we don't get married before our son is due, will Salem take my last name or take his father's? Is there any paper work my fiance needs to sign like an acknowledgement of paternity form? First time parents so we have no clue how it work and were new to OK.

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mrsking13

Stephanie King

Not from OK but I’m pretty sure baby can take any name you want it to have. If he wants to be on the birth certificate he will have to be there to sign it.

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nomli

Monica

Our son has his dad's last name, not mine. When we filled out the info for the birth certificate, I just wrote his name how we wanted it to be. We both signed and done.

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amw322

Aleah

We won’t be married before our daughter comes but she’s still taking his name. Don’t want to go through the name changing process more than just me

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gorjess.momx3

🍀👑Jessica💋💍💕

Here in TX we're considered common-law marriage, so we were able to put his last name for our first and will be doing so for our second as well. But other than the regular papers to be signed for mom and dad, nothing new except for when they ask you you just say common-law and all is good

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mom4m

Mom4m

Мама четверых детей

You can name baby whatever yippy want first, middle and last whether marrued or not

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aviannasmommy2018

Angelina Rodriguez

Мама дочки-младенца

You don't have to be married or anything for him to take his last name. He's the dad so that's all the matters. He will have to sign the birth certificate and some other things , just as you will. That's basically it.

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mommyofthree2711

Ivette Lopez

Yes^^ like pp said, you don’t have to be married.. Baby can have dads last name😇 both my kids have my husbands last name and we weren’t married at the time.

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k_nc

Katie

Baby can have whatever name you want him to have in any state, but in ID my husband (before we were married) did have to sign a paper saying that he claimed our son as his so pretty much an acknowledgment of paternity that got notarized and that was it, super easy 🤷🏼‍♀️

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majorreign

Brooke

I'm in exact same situation and live in Tahlequah OK. I juat told them what I want my sons name to be and he signed an acknowledgement of paternity and that was that . My baby has his daddy's first and last name. I had him at Tahlequah City and that's what they did.

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sclj0930

Darrian Jones

@majorreign which doctor did you see? I've been seeing Champlain.

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majorreign

Brooke

@x_graveyard_baby_x I saw Champlain once but delivered with Dr. Monroe bc I felt more comfortable. I had an awesome delivery experience with him. I went 26hrs in labor and he would be so calm he would come in every so often check me tell me I'm good and then came back to push. I have anxiety so I needed some one calm and not all hyped about catching a baby.

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sclj0930

Darrian Jones

@majorreign my pregnancy has been up and down so I've been seeing the both of them, Monroe is great.

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majorreign

Brooke

@x_graveyard_baby_x yeah he is. The midwife Jenny is awesome too. I would recommend Dr. Ahmad for the babies pediatrician if you haven't chose yet. He is so smart and has so many years experience. He has been both of my boys Drs. He takes these little humans health very serious.

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sclj0930

Darrian Jones

@majorreign I'll keep that in mind.

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themothafuckinladymarlow

Linden

You just put your finances last name on the birth certificate. He won't have to do anything special or any extra steps. You fill in whatever you want baby's name to be and you and dad both sign, no biggie.

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matronmagyk

Hollie

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I'm in OK as well and was unmarried when I had my first son, you can name your child whatever you choose, (your dude could be Jones and you could be Anderson and y'all could name him Smith if you wanted... ;) ) your marital status is of no consequence on that note... as far as paternity, if you guys aren't married then he would sign the affidavit acknowledging paternity and go on the birth certificate...

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sclj0930

Darrian Jones

@matronmagyk it's funny you say that because his last name is Jones lol.

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matronmagyk

Hollie

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@x_graveyard_baby_x Lol, random! I was just thinking of common surnames ;)

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