I hate the term "homewrecker". The cheating partner is at fault for wrecking the home, not the…

@__m she coulda walked away, but no one has the ability to wreck a home unless one of the partners allows it to happen.

I agree with that IF the mistress has no idea about him being married, but if she knows and goes through with having a relationship with a married man, she is just as much to blame as him.

Nowadays women take pride in being side chicks, it's sick, it's not cool, is degrading and disgusting.

@jleona this is true, but to be okay with being the women to wreck that relationship, makes her just as much in the wrong as the man.

@thepumpkinqueen she is DEFINITELY in the wrong and I dnt condone cheating in ANY way, but she does not owe the wife/girlfriend any loyalty. If the man doesn't care abt his own relationship, why should she?

I totally agree! But I think it would be amazing, if women stuck together a bit more... And kept these "men" strait!

Depends if she knew he was married or not

@britt. Definitely agree with this one.

@jleona because she should have enough respect for herself to not put herself in that situation, to waste her time on man who would do such a thing. She should be disgusted. Any women who gets with a man who's in a relationship is to me desperate and gross. I generally feel bad for them.

@__m I didn't say it was cool .. But how can I expect her to respect my relationship when he didn't? She doesn't owe me shit. She's still wrong for knowingly dealing with my man, but he is the one that let her into our "home" in the first place.

@thepumpkinqueen I definitely agree with you .. I'm just saying if he didn't let her into our "home" to begin with she wouldn't have been able to contribute to wrecking it.

@jleona yeah, i know what your saying, the cheating wouldn't happen if the partner didn't allow it. I'm just saying the women had her choice, if she choices to do so, knowingly, she is just as much of dirt as the man is. That's my personal feelings on the subject.

I will forever believe that the cheater is the home wrecker. Truthfully most of the men stepping out don’t slide up to a woman and say hey I’m married or something n a relationship but let’s you and I get together. It doesn’t happen that way. For the most part she’s thinking he’s a potential mate just like you did when you met.

And truthfully ladies men aren’t animals the have brains to think and if their moral code doesn’t stop them from either starting a relationship with someone while in a relationship with someone or just random hookups with people not their partner did you really have a ‘home’ to wreck. Men are perfectly capable of being faithful