Ugh not taking the daycare job I was offered bc after taxes and paying my 50% off daycare I will be working 40hrs to only make $300 per paycheck or $150/wk. It’s exactly what I’m already making babysitting😭
@jovromero, hmm I didn’t know that! A different facility offered me higher pay but the childcare was more expensive. So it balanced out to be the same.
Try to find daycare that will give you a spot for your kids free while working there. Some daycares actually do that.
@laniejay, yes while all that is true I decided it’s not worth being responsible for 10 kids by myself (lead teacher) and away from my kids from 8a-630p everyday for the same amount as right now. I’m able to be there for them and make dinner, clean ect whereas if I took the job we wouldn’t get home till 7pm everyday, our routines would all drastically change and my financial situation would not improve at all whatsoever
But you’ll be paying taxes which you’ll get a return on and also means you’ll be paying into social security for retirement. You’ll have benefits. You’ll also have something to put on your resume and a job you can grow with....
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
@heidi3581 yes it depends on the owners as well.