@julyfourthbaby, leave his ass. His 11th offense within a year. He is doing nothing but dragging you down and you’re letting him

So he stole and you have to hustle to get him out.. man if his mom wants him home she can move her butt and collect things. I'd be letting him stay in jail

@sagwaenglish, exactly!

I'm curious as to what did he steal lol

@julyfourthbaby, FYI im also in Greensboro 👋

@lovin2bhome thank you so much.

I have a different thought on all of this but its just me... His mother is a real piece of work. Shes off her rocker... I feel for YOU honey. Im not gonna tell you dont bail him out and leave his ass because honestly the 50 or so people in your ear about it arent going to change how you feel. If he needs to be out to work or other obligations and you can get the money then you do what you have to do. You do what you can do. He is baby daddy and looks like still your boyfriend. I personally know the inner turmoil that happens when you know what you should do and what you need to do arent the same. In situations like this reason really doesnt dictate your actions its more of feelings. Good luck id probably just not talk to the mamma bear shes just gonna stress you out. When you get him out he can deal with her and her mouth. Looks like he does need some help if hes stealing this much. Hes not even good at it so whats the payoff for him to do it? We dont know those answers but you and him may. It could be him being childish or him trying to sell them to support y’all which is still wrong... we only see a small snapshot of the story but I would definitely get help :) let me know if you need someone to talk to.

Why she mad at you though? Her son is the one stealing not you. If I were you I would leave his ass in there. He’s not going to stop if he just gets bailed out all of the time. Obviously needs to learn a lesson if this is his 11th offense. So he gets arrested like once a month? That’s ridiculous

Dude if my husband went to jail I wouldn’t bail his ass out. Fuck that. He did something stupid he can sit there with the rest of the illegal activity doers.

My husband is in jail right now for the same thing... and I’m LETTING HIS ASS SIT! He’s been in there for three weeks now. He called me twice and I told him I’m grown, I have kids to take care of and bills to pay. You want to be out in the streets getting in trouble... you figure out a way to get your ass out. 💅

Let's be honest... this is just the 11th time he wss caught... not the 11th time he stole

If I were you I would leave him in jail. He messed up and now he needs to pay the price. You can do better than him. Think about your kids. Do you really want them seeing that all the time? I know you love him but that is not a healthy relationship. You need to do what's best for your children.

11 offenses he’s not going to ever get a job girl you can do better

I'm wondering why anyone is trying to bail him out. 🤔

11th offense? 😳😳😳 Jesus Christ!!

@ericanatalieezell, or even better if the “man” doesn’t have it in his own damn bank account no mam boy bye🤷🏽‍♀️

Yea, you look li,e a really nice pretty young woman, I don’t think you need BS like that from anyone, especially if they can’t support you or at least be there for you.

@mommynmotion exactly! If they aren't going to do for you what you have done for them f them

I’m not gonna tell you “no leave him there” like the others I’m just curious why are you choosing to bail him out though? Is it necessary? If he stealing that much and it’s his 11th offense Then why...do you feel obligated since he the baby daddy?? Not tryna start an argument just extra curious

@ericanatalieezell, from personal experience I spend a thousand dollars bailing him out guess who has not seen a single cent or diaper for there child🙋🏽‍♀️

@mommynmotion I was gonna say something about her using money that she needs to be spending on her babies

Girl leave his ass in there! Don't put yourself on the line bc he can't be a real man and stay out of trouble. You have 2 babies to think about. You will never get any where with a loser like him. Find better. Focus on you and those babies. If he really loves you he wouldn't be a idiot and have 11 offenses on his record within a year! 11 is 10 too many. 1 or 2 is okay but any more and it's a issue.

There’s just so much “nope.” in this post. Like everyone else said, leave his dumb ass in there. Who gets 11 offenses in one year? Let him stay in jail, it’s not like he’s contributing any. It also looks like the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree when dealing with his mom and his bullshit. I would’ve been long gone a long ass time ago. @julyfourthbaby,

Jesus 11 offenses?! How does someone not learn after doing something ELEVEN TIMES. Nope nope nope. Leave his ass in jail, let him do his time and hopefully learn a lesson. Stop enabling him.

I had to do the same thing with my sons father mark my words YOU WILL REGRET IT!!!! Do NOT bail him out! Remember the cost of diapers and crap for your baby and when he or she is here and you have no help from him you will be grateful you let him rot! That’s my advice anyway lol

If you do the crime do the time. If people keep on enabling him, hes gonna keep on doing it. I'd be embarrassed. Smh

11th offense? You'd think he'd learn by now lol. I'd let him sit in there and think about what he done. Why is he stealing clothes anyways. Get a job and buy them. How is he going to support a baby? Steal everything too? Smh. Sounds like my cousin. He's in prison now 3 kids under 4 without their dad. It isn't his mom's or your responsilbity to get him out for him doing something he shouldn't have been doing in the first place.

What are you doing with this felon? Surely you know you deserve better.... right ?

He sounds like a real catch.

@julyfourthbaby, leave his ass. His 11th offense within a year. He is doing nothing but dragging you down and you’re letting him

@ek620 but it is automatically a felony when he took the security device off.

@ek620 it was because he took the security device off and this is his 11th offence within the past year.

@its.a.bird it's not his first offense (its his 11th at the age of 19...) And he committed a felony by taking the security things off the clothes. It's a felony automatically when he took the security device off.

$4500? What did he steal? Must’ve been a felony for it to be that high!

Nope. He can stay in there.

@its.a.bird yeah the order was all backwards! Like the last picture posted when u scroll is really the 1st one if that makes sense

Yeah, his ass would be staying in jail for doing that dumb shit.

@its.a.bird it's not my job either and that's not why I'm mad at all. I am mad because she is saying I do not love her son hahahaha haha because I didn't bail him out today.

@izzyaspie I feel the same way part of me!! But, I just cant!

@izzyaspie thank you ma'am. Exactly!

So he stole and you have to hustle to get him out.. man if his mom wants him home she can move her butt and collect things. I'd be letting him stay in jail