I hate when ppl see my babies cling to me and the make a comment saying,”they’re spoiled”. No, they are loved and I’m…

My daughter clings to me when we go somewhere she’s never been and if someone else tries to hold her she literally flips out. It only lasts a little bit she just has to get use to her surroundings I guess.

@rebelprincesz24, mine cling to me no matter where we are and who’s around.

@thathusie, same. Unless she’s outside then she’s running around the yard.

@thathusie your children are at the ages that it is normal. If they were willingly running up to strangers then u should be concerned. Its definitely a developmental phase

Yasssss!

I'm going to start telling people this cuz forreal. I hear this every time we are around other people. Imagine her damn birthday. Luckily it wasn't that bad because we were in our home so her surroundings didn't change.

Right lol! I say.. um yeah, I would be clinging to my mom too if I still could and some days do.

Omg yes!!! Went to a birthday party Saturday and my almost 2 year old son was clingy but he didn't know the people or the surroundings. And of course ppl were saying hes spoiled and jealous of the new baby and thats not the case at all 😐😐 it's annoying

Theres nothing wrong with it. My daughter does the same thing. She likes being right up my ass pretty much lmao

@korimommi, you’re absolutely right! They still make the comments. They really look crazy because I still pick up my son and let him sit in my lap. It’s annoying, but I keep doing it because I want to and love bonding with my babies.

@cmjohnson3047, very annoying. People say that also about my son, that he’s jealous of his sister.

@thathusie and those moments dont last forever. It will be a day where he is to big and too cool to cuddle with mommy so I dont see anything wrong with it. PLUS people try to get there kids to grow up way to quick these days, I see nothing wrong with letting a child be a child.

@korimommi, I agree 100%. I’m enjoying it all while it lasts, and don’t see anything wrong with it at all. I hate the way ppl try to make these kids grow up super fast.

i hate that everyone said my daughter was spoiled and because i spoiled her i was going to have a hard time with 2 kids but idc i love my baby she loves her mommy, everybody else can fuck off

Yep im enjoying it....we also co sleep and i get a ear full from ppl with that too.... i do eventually wanna sleep next to my husband again lol so we'll b trabsitioning in the fall

@damnkmar, exactly how I feel.

@cmjohnson3047, we coslept until my daughter came home. Now, they both have their own bed. My son has always had a crib and big boy bed, but it became the normal thing to let him sleep in our bed.

They're loved. It's what kids need 💞💞

Same with my two year old... yesterday we went to see my lil brother(he’s crazy about he’s uncle) & my lil brother was with he’s friend the baby would not get off my leg lol he was hanging on to it like it was a pole lol.. he didn’t even want my lil brother hugging him.. but as soon as he’s friend left the baby was I love you uncle n was all over him... he’s so so so shy around strangers n I love it 😊

I wish my girl clung to me! She’s so independent! She will go with strangers and even give people she just met hugs and stuff. Shes literally the perfect candidate for snatching up. I have to eye her like a hawk in public! I’m only good for kissing boo boos 🤷🏻‍♀️😘

Girl anit nothing wrong with that my son the same way super clingy to me and I don’t mind but only at one time of the day that at bedtime or when he’s hurt daddy gets him n he tells him no mommy