Is it bad I wanna plan to take my birth control out just to have 1 more baby with the man I love but…

It makes sense that you want kids around the same age. But being dishonest and skipping out on birth control.... no bueno 😬 If a man were to “trick” us somehow into getting pregnant on purpose when we didn’t want another kid right now, feminists would roar. It’s a two way street 🤷🏻‍♀️

That child will be half his. He will be half responsible for it. Its not fair for you to lie and get pregnant without you both wanting it. Especially since you said you want to gain his trust back, why would you lie about something like this?

Your reason for wanting another baby now makes sense, but his reason for wanting to wait also makes sense. It sounds like you guys really need to talk about it; if you stop birth control without telling him, that could cause some major problems. You say you love him... don’t deceive him.

@vvrobinson, it’s not lying I mean we talked about it want another one but he wants me to do good like he is amazing and I understand but it’s a long progress to finish and I just wanna tie my tubs after my last baby I mean I can’t pop all these kids out cause of my c-sections so I’m limited but I just want 1 more but that’s true what u said

@mathcow89, true thank you

@its.a.bird, yes he does