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Nessa
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Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)

My husband has me thinking twice about vaccinations I don’t know how to feel about it now..😩 he feels like we should not…

My husband has me thinking twice about vaccinations I don’t know how to feel about it now..😩 he feels like we should not vaccinate .. our next baby and to stop vaccinating our daughter, and told me a story about his friends kid not being the same after a certain vaccination 😭 I seriously don’t know how I feel about this .. any mamas ever felt upset , confused ?

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rjxmommy

Rjxmommy2 Мама двоих (4 года, 5 лет)

I am a mom of a autistic child and I would still 100% vaccinate. I don’t believe vaccines give kids autism even if I did I would much rather have a alive child with it then a dead child without.

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kendrav

KendraВ ожидании первенца

Would you rather have a healthy baby alive with "mental issues" or a deathly ill child who could die from not getting vaccinations? I just saw a news report of the 4 month old dying from meningitis that it got from another unvaccinated child.. you're child your choice 🤷‍♀️

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nessaness

NessaМама дочки (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)

@amw322, this is sooo true! It felt great positive vibes 👍🏻☺️ thanks for pointing it out!

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amw322

Aleah

I just want to comment saying I appreciate this post not turning into a mean offensive argument like it usually does lol ❤️

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mommy.2girls

AМама двоих (младенец)

I would definitely vaccinate your child! It's not worth the risk of getting a disease god forbid.

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nessaness

NessaМама дочки (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)

@dee2115, thank you I will definitely do more research!

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nessaness

NessaМама дочки (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)

@alyboo102293, that’s another way too look at it , for those that don’t see the other side of the world we don’t think about how bad it is and how good we have it over here.. but I will definitely do more research thank you so much for sharing! I’ll definitely point this out to my husband!

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nessaness

NessaМама дочки (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)

@dinamarie1995, yes exactly!

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dee2115

Dee Мама двоих (младенец)

Not much could happen to your child due to being vaccinated, but a whole lot can happen to them for NOT being vaccinated. Chose wisely and do some research instead of just listening to your husbands story of someone “not being the same”.

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alyboo102293

Alyboo102293Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I feel privileged to be able to receive the vaccines we do, I’ve been across seas to help in some not so lucky areas and children and adults are dying left and right because of certain things that could have been prevented. It’s so sad. I personally vaccinate for that reason. It’s ultimately your guys decision. I have a friend that did not vax and her son has autism vaccines have nothing to do with it in my opinion.

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m00my2five

StephanieМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@nessaness you can do a delayed schedule if you want to space them out a little more.

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mamaof2babes

Dina Isaac Мама двоих (младенец)

@nessaness, your welcome. Plus if you only do one and you kid has a reaction you know what shot did it instead of not knowing.

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_leah

LeahМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@nessaness you can pm if you want and I can give you more info!

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nessaness

NessaМама дочки (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)

@ladyblauvelt_mommyof2, yea the flu vaccine I normally never get it because I’ve gotten it before and still got sick but not as sick as those that didn’t get the vaccine! That was one of the shots we were like is it necessary 🤷🏽‍♀️ I just think everyone’s body is different and the way they react to things..

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nessaness

NessaМама дочки (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)

@leahkay, which have you denied? Like the pneumonia one my husband said is that necessary? A vaccine can’t fully prevent that illness.. but yes thank you more research will help me figure out what to do..

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nessaness

NessaМама дочки (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)

@dinamarie1995, they do give a lot of vaccines all at once but that’s a good way to do by only getting 1or2 shots at a time! Thank you for sharing your story& experience..

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motherof11764s

Tita AyalaМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@laniejay I mean it is both parents decisions don't get me wrong but mother s have a good instincts than fathers I mean I understand all the vaccines that would cause the kids to get sick but there's so many disease out there can't never know wat child will have without vaccines

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ladyblauvelt

Allyson AlmedaМама двоих (младенец)

@nessaness they can't usually fully prevent the flu because it's always a different strain of bacteria and they have to try to find the one that is the worst at the time. I never get the flu vaccine, I just don't like it.

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_leah

LeahМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@nessaness vaccines can be scary, but in the end they're protecting your kids. I've always been on the fence about them but I also don't want my kids to get a life threatening illness. My son even had a mild reaction once but I still chose to vaccinate but I do deny a couple that I feel like are unnecessary right now. Definitely do research and make the decision best for your family.

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nessaness

NessaМама дочки (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)

@mswedes, @ladyblauvelt_mommyof2 @4thbabyontheway, @kendrab, @laniejay, @leahkay, @rjxmommy, thank you mamas for your advice and experiences with vaccinations, I just feel like we have all received vaccinations growing up and all ended up okay and some maybe did get a reaction to a certain vaccine which is close having a food allergy!

My husband just feels like the government shouldn’t have to right to put things in our body and feels like there’s certain illness a vaccine can’t fully prevent , like the flu, pneumonia,etc. & he has a friend that had told him about their experience which totally freaked him out about vaccines! But although I do aggreee they do give a lot of vaccines all at once which I don’t like.. so I will possibly consider doing 1 or 2 at once.. but thank you all again! I will definitely do more research..

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mercstoddard

Mercedes StoddardМама дочки-младенца, беременна (23 нед.)

I would say do your own research and talk more about it. Ask people who have and haven't. For those who haven't they typically have a natural type of remedy. The reason some people don't vaccinate is because they believe it will cause health issues because some of the ingredients in the vaccines but the amounts of those are so low it doesn't affect them. I was vaccinated all the way. I've never had any illness. My younger siblings never received any and they've been fine as well. It all depends on the person, their body, and their immune system. Most vaccines is basically the doctor putting a small portion of the sickness or disease into the child so their body can know to fight it etc. I personally believe some are unnecessary depending on where you live and what the child is around, if you travel, that kind of thing. Your child could never have the issues but if they did end up with them you shouldn't have to hold thay over yourself that it could have been prevented with the vaccines. Definitely research both sides of it from multiple resources.

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brittanymhestehave

brittany

@its.a.bird, ok ill talk to hubby

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brittanymhestehave

brittany

Yes my husband refuses because it causes disabilities like autism

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kendrav

KendraВ ожидании первенца

@leahkay okay

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mamaof2babes

Dina Isaac Мама двоих (младенец)

I do one vaccine at a time. My husbands grandmas friends granddaughter was perfectly healthy and got all of her shots and the next day started having seizures which she never had and they eventually killed her. Not saying it was because of the shot but they believe it’s because her body couldn’t handle all the Mercury. That’s why I give one at a time. I will be doing the same with my son.

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_leah

LeahМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@kendrab I'm not saying vaccines are bad 🤦 my kids are vaccinated and I'm pro Vax but I'm just saying there's no way to 100% prove a child got meningitis from another child not being vaccinated.

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kendrav

KendraВ ожидании первенца

@leahkay okay 🤷‍♀️ I'm still not risking it

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rjxmommy

Rjxmommy2 Мама двоих (4 года, 5 лет)

I am a mom of a autistic child and I would still 100% vaccinate. I don’t believe vaccines give kids autism even if I did I would much rather have a alive child with it then a dead child without.

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_leah

LeahМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@kendrab I'm just gonna take a sec to point out that the meningitis vaccine doesn't cover all forms of meningitis and there's no way to 100% prove the baby got sick from an unvaccinated child.

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laniejay

Lanie JayМама троих детей

@4thbabyontheway, whoa. It is BOTH their decisions. WTH?

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kendrav

KendraВ ожидании первенца

Would you rather have a healthy baby alive with "mental issues" or a deathly ill child who could die from not getting vaccinations? I just saw a news report of the 4 month old dying from meningitis that it got from another unvaccinated child.. you're child your choice 🤷‍♀️

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motherof11764s

Tita AyalaМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

And also its ur decision not ur husband... Ur the mother u will know ways best for ur kids

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motherof11764s

Tita AyalaМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

In my opinion u should have ur baby and child vaccinated never know wat would happen when they're not vaccinated and then there's other people or kids who are sick with any particular disease it baby would be immune to it its all safe right now there's a virus going on that's a hand mouth and foot virus aka coxsackie Virus any child or adult can get it hopefully this info its worth it :)

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ladyblauvelt

Allyson AlmedaМама двоих (младенец)

If you are already vaccinating your daughter don't stop and vaccinate your new baby. Vaccines don't cause issues and if they do it's very rare. It's the best choice. If you stop vaccinating your daughter and she gets sick with one of the diseases that was eradicated before then your newborn baby will be sick too and a lot of these sicknesses that are coming back are very dangerous to newborns

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mswedes

MishМама сына (1 год)

Personally I feel like it’s the same as same a child had a peanut allergy so you’ll never give your child peanut butter. It doesn’t apply to everyone. I personally don’t feel vaccines can cause something like that. Sometimes things like learning disabilities aren’t visible at an early age. It could be a coincidence. I’d do more research on both sides of the argument before making a decision.

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