I have nothing to hide but i don’t necessarily want my boyfriend snooping through my phone, it’s insulting

@julisa_ someone mentioned my problem with the emojjis may be because I don't have an iPhone, so that makes sense, to me it looks like this ♀ haha...

I guess I figure trust should already be there if there are kids and you have been together that long, if someone looses my trust there is nothing they can do to gain it back, but that is just me. And I wouldn't just grab my kids, but I'd make arrangements to share custody with them, even if I don't trust them to not to cheat I'd trust them with my kids (unless my trust issues had something to do with them around the kids). I feel strongly that there is no reason to stay in a relationship just for the kids as a lot of people do, because it usually impacts kids more than the adults realize.

@ohnstadk, lol Okay so the female symbol is an emoji that has a female with a face expression there’s some for men there’s baby there’s all types of emojis ... and you say that if I don’t trust i shouldn’t be with him I get it they always say if there’s no trust there’s no relationship but will that included if you been with your partner for a while so if you don’t trust you leave you wouldn’t build trust you will just get your kids and be out ? 😂😂

@julisa_ first off, I'm gonna ask you this cause I keep seeing it, but everyone keeps putting the symbol for females when they say something and I so.dont understand why, so if you could shed light on that I'd appretiate it haha

Second, personally, I figure if you think you gotta look then you don't trust him, if you.dont trust him you shouldn't be together whether or not he is being true

@julisa_, ughhh yeah that’s so much harder. he needs to understand that he looks so shady and it’s really hard to trust someone when it has to be like that

@lcost, yeah he has his figure print and if it’s wrong the password is typed like word form no numbers 🤷🏻‍♀️

@julisa_, i was behind him when he put it in a few times without him i guess even thinking about it. i would try and see if there’s a way you can figure it out

@lcost, and how did you get to find out his password?

@lcost, I feel like it is and when I ask him about it we argue so then it makes me think what I’m saying is right

i don’t want to be bias because of my past experience but my boyfriend didn’t know i knew his password when a month after finding out we were having a baby and i went on it to check an email and found him texting another girl. he now has no password because he knows i don’t trust his ass. really hope this isn’t the case for you!

@swedishmomma, yes I just wish there was something I can use to see in his phone and when I’m at work for 8 hours what is he thinking like this phone situation got me thinking deep 😂😂

My husband I are open about our phones. We use each other's sometimes too haha. We have nothing to hide from one another. If he constantly hid his phone from me or wouldn't let me touch it, I would be concerned for sure he was hiding something.

@hollieletcher01, lmao omg even from a mans perspective 🤦🏻‍♀️

I would say yes. Hell even my husband said yes when I read the post to him.

In my experience, it definitely means he’s hiding something. But, that was just my experience. Who knows.

I get what everyone is saying but it’s like I don’t have nothing to hide and I let him get my phone look in it all that I just feel like if you don’t have nothing to hide there shouldn’t be an issue 💯

@bigmama18, yeah my husband go through mines and yeah he talked to females in the past that he had no business doing just to get an ex mad so he showed me something on the phone and he jumped when I didn’t give it back

@itslinny, yes he will jump if I did

Everybody is saying the same thing. It all leads back to trust. If you don’t trust the person you’re with it’s never going to work. If he has given you reason not to trust him in the past and your gut is saying somethings up now. Something is wrong. Don’t go looking for an answer you don’t want to find. Cause you will find it.

Absolutely!!

Yea

Not always. Some people are just more protective over theirs cause it’s the last thing of privacy they have. But in a lot of cases, yes the person may be hiding something. It really comes down to the person

Most likely yess ! I had the same issue recently....

I have nothing to hide but i don’t necessarily want my boyfriend snooping through my phone, it’s insulting

I think it depends on how he's acting. Does he snatch it away from you or is he chasing you around the house for his phone back lol. I'm not hiding anything, but I wouldn't want my husband going through my phone. Where's the trust? I can pick up his phone to make a call or Google something or play a game, but if I picked it up saying I was going to go through it he'd probably be upset I didn't have trust with him.

Yes

I’d say yea cause he’s secure about something...but I agree with @bigmama18, you shouldn’t have to go through someone’s phone if you love them and trust them. My SO let’s me touch his phone, I know his password but I trust him to have respect for him.

Most likely. Question is- what’s wrong with your relationship to feel you have to go through it. My husband and I use each other’s phones interchangeably, but I don’t go through it.

If you need to go through someone’s phone there is already a problem. I don’t go through my husbands phone. Never have. Not even sure of his password. He doesn’t go through mine either.

Even to touch it?

Not always. It's almost like how a lot of women don't want people going through their purse. I'm not hiding anything in it, it's just intrusive.

Probably.