I get a job so that I can pay for the crafts I wanna do with my kiddos and other stuff. So my husband won’t trip about…

I get a job so that I can pay for the crafts I wanna do with my kiddos and other stuff. So my husband won’t trip about money. So I take my money and buy paint for the dressers I’m about to do. I load up the kids and I’m so excited to go pick up my order, I call my husband to share the excitement you know like a normal wife. I my to get yelled at and hung up. He’s been off for a couple days now. Up then down, rude and super sarcastic. Idk what to do anymore. I try to stay out of his way so he can sleep I try to not spend money unless it’s what I made. I parent on my own so the babies won’t aggravate him. I’m not sure how much more I can take