Am I overreacting? I've been home all day with the kids while hubby works which is fine because I…
Am I overreacting? I've been home all day with the kids while hubby works which is fine because I decided to be a stay at home mom. Hubby took us out to eat for dinner and my brother came so it was fun. Then my hubby gets a call from his friend asking if he wants to go to a bar. Now he will sometimes go to the bar aftet work with those friends/coworkers which is fine because he will come home before 5ish. But now I am once again at home by myself with the kids. One who is sick and one toddler who gets into everything. I do have classes I need to work on but can't because my youngest who is sick won't let me put him down. So I am a little upset. I mean my hubby did get to go out and drink a beer already and drinks beer with his coworkers after work most days. Is it something to be upset about or should I just suck it up?
Taylor Boudreaux·
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I could see why you would be upset, that doesn’t sound fair
Anna20201·
If this isn’t often and you didn’t tell him you’re upset about it before he left then I would deal and mention if you could get him to talk to you about it first before saying yes to friends. If he does this multiple times a week and you asked him to stay because you needed help with the children and he still left, then I would be upset.
Hannah Harding-Duran·
@anna20201 he asked after his friend called and I told him how I felt and how I would like help with kids and need help so I can do school work.
Anna20201·
@mommyof.3, I would be upset if he still went after you asked him not to. Everyone deserves time to do things they want, but not when he’s needed at home with sick children. I was just sit down and talk to him about it when he gets home. Arguing and fighting will just escalate things. Have a calm conversation and let him know you weren’t happy about his decision.
Little Mommy ·
Yes you have the right to be upset. SAHMs don’t get to go out to the bar with their girlfriends after work every day because work never ends for us... if you told your hubby how you felt and he ignored it to do what he wanted and put his needs before the family then yes you should be upset